The drunk thread is having a small debate about girls. Some are for fit muscles, some are against. Where do you stand? What I would term average skinnyfat: Spoiler Fit but not bulky: Spoiler Crossfit girl: Spoiler Ze Tehminator: Spoiler Or for those of you who prefer curvy (ACTUAL curvy, not "Curvy as a euphemism for fat" curvy) Spoiler Are fit women the most attractive, and how much muscle is too much?
The girl in the fit but not bulky picture is just a smokeshow, awesomely attractive. I think once a body stops being "feminine" is when its too much. Stomach definition, showing obliques, arm definition, toned legs, all good things. But once your body is cut and muscular all over, its getting to be a bit much. Part of a woman's appeal is softness and curves (however much of each is up to you). And for the record, skinnyfat is the WORST. The girl that eats tons of salad but doesn't work out, or who is gifted with a naturally fast metabolism when younger. Maybe that body looks nice when you are 18, but thats the same body who is thin all over but has the belly chub or just starts to look weird. Girls who exercise in any sincere fashion don't get skinny fat. Give me a girl who works out and is a bit thicker than skinny fat any day.
Fit women are definitely the most attractive. I have found that I'm a really big fan of: Rock Climbers: Spoiler Swimmers: Spoiler Dancers: Spoiler NSFW Soccer Players: Spoiler NSFW
Fit but not bulky definitely has the best body of that group IMO I'll probably catch shit for this (as I always seem to do when these conversations come up) but the girl on the right in the "Curvy" pic has passed the line from "Curvy" to outright "Chubby" I would not date her. If I drunkenly hooked up with her, I'd wake up and think "Shit, hope no one saw me with her"
Has anybody ever noticed a correlation between body weight/BMI and talents in bed? For the record, I don't think those last two are fat. I DID just finish watching HBO's The Weight of the Nation, though, so perhaps my point of view is warped.
Chalk up another vote for the fit but not bulky girls. When I see the skinny fat type of bodies I always think the term "frumpy" accurately describes them. The crossfit girl is going too far with it and is slipping towards the downside of the attraction scale. It's a shame because most of them used to be the fit but not bulky girls, but just didn't catch on that looking like the hulk isn't as sexy as looking like Scarlett Johansson.
I like curvy, or if she carries the weight right, chubby. I'm a fan of big tits, big asses, child bearing hips, and a small belly. Now I didn't say fat or obese, if you out weigh me by a solid 20+ pounds we have an issue. I don't turn away a smaller girl, but if I get to pick I like one with a little cushion for my pushin'. The girl on the right in the 'curvy' picture, is about what I'd prefer. Skinny fat is alright on some women, but most of them don't carry it right.
Put me down for curvy. I'm a relatively big guy. If you're a dinky little 105-pound girl, I'm going to feel bad about manhandling you. I hooked up with a girl who was around there and I was scared of breaking something. I'm sure that little women's bodies are far more durable than they feel, but it's a comfort thing; I feel awkward when someone is half my size, and it hurts the mood. My preferred woman is about 140-150 pounds and sorta stocky. If that means she's on the chubby side, that's the way it goes. In short, I'm the perfect guy to take to the bar since I'm pretty much willing to take one for the team. I draw the line at "has a beer gut." (bracing for the inevitable "Are you sure you like curvy chicks, or are you just saying that to make yourself feel better about not hooking up with the slinky little things?")
Well the single fattest girl I ever fucked, fucked how you think a 5'2 girl at 200+ would. Honestly I came to mid fooling around, was drunk enough to oblige her when she asked to fuck. I was really working on drunken autopilot. But she didn't really help with any movement on her end. Every time I thrust she wheezed, I guess in ecstasy, like someone was pressing on her chest doing CPR. It was the single saddest moment of my life. My buddies decided to not cock block that night and instead just hound me for it as they had all witnessed me pick her up at the bar.
Careful, swimmers can quickly slide into "too ripped" territory I knew 2 super pretty swimmers in college that had shoulders/traps that terrified me.
I've hooked up with everything from slightly curvy down. The current FWB is maybe 5lbs over her desired weight, but she's working on it. I just want flat tummys and everything else in proportion. I can work with bigger girls if they have nice skin and huge tits. Big girls that don't have big tits are just off. But of the above options, dancer is definitely ideal. Just not blonde. I'm so tired of blondes.
Fit by a long shot. While they are in shape and it shows, they haven't gone overboard and still maintain all of the characteristics I find desirable. When you exercise and eat properly it not only shows that you care about your appearance but your health overall. The problem I have with skinnyfat women is that many times I've found they maintain their body through no effort of their own except maybe they don't eat like complete shit, other than that it's just their metabolism (I'm 22 so it really hasn't slowed down much if at all for people my age yet) and I would venture to guess that these are women who end up putting on weight later in life. Not saying there aren't plenty of women who have this body type, or even the curvy body type, who don't tickle my fancy, but they just don't come close to fit women. Crossfit girl I have a love-hate relationship with. Generally speaking they have amazing legs, amazing abs, and amazing asses. The shoulders and traps are an immediate turn off though. Definition is good, but once I start seeing moderate increases in size it's all downhill for me from there. While the crossfit girl pictured does have great abs, they are *slightly* too defined for my taste, just to nitpick. Female bodybuilders... don't find attractive, that's cool if that's your thing but it just ain't working for me.
Look, I love Curvy. I really fucking love a girl with the great shape around the hips and ass and amazing tits. I also like average/'skinny fat' although it's a term I'd never use, and I like fit girls even more. But my most guttural, good god I want that reaction to a body without consideration of other things is usually around a crossfit fit girl. This is a photo of a friend of mine - It's gloating a bit, but those are my hands in the photo. NSFW * Her abs are if anything better defined than the photo shows in person and she has a swimmers V that just makes my fucking mouth water. As it happens she has a gorgeous face, and is an amazing person as well as having one of the most amazing playground bodies I've ever laid hands on. But her body type, just fucking wow. With that comes the caveat that I could never be monogamous. Curvy girls with great tits are amazing. But the crossfit style ripped and muscular thing edges out by the tiniest margin. *Ghetto editing to blur the face out is my lazy ass fault. The original picture was by professional photographers Christine and Len who do amazing work. I do have permission to republish that photo anywhere I want, but still try to blur faces out for this kind of thing.
Too ripped my ass. If she didn't have that Denis Leary haircut(/face) she'd be pretty hot. My ideal girl is athletic. Most girls are skinnyfat. They've got no musclemass and their idea of working out is 20 minutes on a treadmill followed by a milkshake. These are the girls who get fat as soon as they get married/old, because they don't know shit about fitness and, worse, they don't want to know, because they might break a sweat and it's haaaard. Fuck that noise. Give me a girl with some muscle under the padding. Spoiler Spoiler Spoiler Spoiler
Basically what he said. I'd have to say though, 99% of the crossfit girl pictures are of them while training and flexing hard. Of the crossfit girls I know in the everyday setting they look more like the fit girl pic and don't look as "bulky" as they do when they are getting their pump on. It's been discussed before but a there are some weight lifter girls and figure competition girls that looks drop dead seizure inducing hot while their in the off season or bulking but just look too muscularly when they have to cut for competition.