Would you rather have an insane and psychopathically-obsessed person be in love with you or hate your guts?
This is the first one where I went there is no clear answer. You are fucked either way. But if i had a choice, i would say love. Hope i can fend off them until they get bored. Hate me, i would probably end up dead.
An insane and psychopathically-obsessed person can be both in love with you and hate your guts at the same time. So I believe either answer is fine, because they are essentially the same.
The love side, I guess? I mean, the blowjobs would be great, but the added fear that they may bite through your dick would have you really walking that tightrope.
The point is that nothing in the relationship matters because you eventually have resort to using a weapon/violence to make sure they leave you alone, because literally nothing else works on those fucking people. They’re like a dog with a bacon-flavoured frisbee and I’ll have none of that. NEVER again.
Love, I guess. Luckily I don’t seem to inspire such strong feelings in people so I’ve been spared this experience. However. . . . I have an ex girlfriend who completely changed her life around after dating me. I’m not sure if it was for me, because of me or to spite me. We dated for about 6 months, broke up for awhile, then got back together the following year (the sex was great- it was hard to stay away). In the interim she: Gave up smoking Ditched some of her more problematic friends Quit her job Got a new job in my industry Went back to college, with a major closely aligned with my job. I don’t think she was a psychopath, but it struck me as a little creepy at the time. I made a conscious decision to be flattered and stay for the sex. At least until I broke up with her again.
Y'all are crazy. Give me hate so I know I have an enemy. I can take all measures to keep them away from me.
If you have someone crazy in love with you, then you have a rube willing to do anything for you, right? I guess it depends on how nefarious you are, or how much shit you need done by someone else.
I guess it's the "psychopathically obsessed" with you that the sticking point with me. Generally hating someone's guts you tend to cool off and move on when they are out of sight out of mind. If they are psychopathically obsessed with you, that hatred will turn to murder. In love? You could just go with it and not cross them and it might not turn into a murder situation. Michael Douglas could have just left his wife and banged out Glenn Close and lived happily ever after. Could have just taken the beej from Demi Moore and no one would have been the wiser too. Douglas fucked around with a 6 on a good day roastie. Alexandra Daddario could be psychotically obsessed with me any day of the week. It is true crazy sex is the best sex. They don't have normal people inhibitions and use sex and sexuality for attention. Usually means throwing energetic sex at you all the time. The bulimic girl I dated was the most insane person Ive ever met. Only time I felt like a girl was fucking me, like, using my body as a sex toy with a pulse. Lucky for me my personality was just grating enough she never became fully attached. Her vicious side came out eventually and we'd argue at work. She blew up on me one night and walk out of our job. I never talked to her again. I felt bad for the next guy she dated, knocked her up, and married. Didn't take long before she was single again. Single mom with two kids and two baby daddies. I really dodged a bullet. She's a nurse too, so on the level of redheads and horse girls crazy.