What makes you weird? What do yo like that your friends might think is weird? Do you like a finger in the ass or are you a missionary only person? I like having a pretty girl hit me with a paddle, I don't mind a little bondage. I like it when a woman ties me up and and has her way with me, I like the dominance-teasing thing that has going for it. My friends are straight laced so thats weird for them. Focus: What things do you like to do in bed that others might consider weird or unusual? Do you have any fetishes? Do panties turn you on or is latex your thing? Alt-Focus: What do you want to try or are curious to try if circumstances were right Un-Focus:What things are absolutely off limits? Have you experienced something in the past and just did not like it?
I have a fetish for older women. It stems from being a teenager and my best friend at the time's mother being extremely attractive, recently divorced, and a bit too flirty with her son's friends after she had a cocktail or two. I think that cemented itself in my psyche during my developmental years. Other than that, I dont have any crazy kinks or anything. I did sleep with a girl that was dressed like Carmen San Diego one Halloween in college if thats worth anything. Alt. Alt. Focus: What non-sexual things are you weird about? I dont eat butter on anything. Popcorn, corn on the cob, toast, lobster rolls (well the Connecticut variety anyway), etc. I have a visceral reaction to it that doesnt make any sense, but I just cant do it. Obviously Ill use it when I cook, and I baste a steak with it to finish in the pan. I just wont eat it directly. It doesnt make sense.
Alt. Alt Focus: People using my silverware, straw, eating off my sandwich etc. If someone wants to try a bite of my food, I'll cut them off a piece and put it on their plate. My fork is not going in their mouth. Gross.
Weird or unusual all depends on the individual. I prefer a little rougher and was surprised how out there some of my friends thought I was for hair pulling or light pressure in the neck area (not into full on choking or asphyxiation, just the grabbing sensation). My friend called it the "JWags Loreal challenge" as to whether girls like it. Same with biting. I have a near infatuation with the idea of a threesome, but thats largely due to simple male desire coupled with multiple partners teasing me with it and then letting me down or bait and switching. Alt-focus: Given my number of partners and penchant for pushing boundaries, most people are shocked to know Ive never had anal sex. More than willing to try. More as a tick the box and then figure out if I like it or not. I had one older girl I hooked up with who was really into butt stuff, giving and receiving, and that was awesome, so I'm more than into trying more of that (HAHAHA IM SO GAY CAUSE I LIKE PEOPLE TOUCHING MY ASS, RIGHT?!). Unfocus: I don't want to DP a girl, I dont want to do anything bathroom related, and I don't want to fulfill your rape fantasies. Otherwise, I'm pretty down for whatever. Alt alt focus: Funny enough with the anal thing, I hate all bathroom humor and bathroom talk. Always have. Also, I have almost a trigger when people dismiss me for not understanding. Not like "you could never fully understand", which is fair for a variety of reasons, but more like "you wouldnt understand" as a dismissive conversation ender.
Me, too. I had a relationship with a woman 26 years my senior off-and-on for three years. It was amazing. Most of the women I've dated have been at least 5 years older than me, and some women just look so damn good once they get into their 40's and 50's (yeah, I said 50's. Got a problem with that? Fuck you.). The ironic thing is that Jungle Julia is almost ten years younger than me. Un-Focus: Any kind of choking, spanking/whipping, pain in general. When I was in high school, I messed around with this goth chick who was into all that (shocking, I know...). She wanted to be tied up, beaten with a belt, choked, etc. I didn't like it at all, but I went along with it because, well, I wanted to get some action. Then she wanted to do that stuff to me, and wouldn't take "no" for an answer, so that ended the whole arrangement.
Focus: I'm another one who prefers older women. I've never dated one who I would say is much older than I am, but I've oddly had much better luck getting dates with women who are 1-5 years older than ones who are my age or younger. Alt. Alt Focus: For some reason, regardless of what kind of job I've had, I've always hated talking about what I do for work, beyond just stating my job title. I'd honestly rather talk about how much I make--even if the pay is shit--than talk about the specific tasks that I do at work. And it's not because "I hate my job and I don't want to talk about;" it has just always made me uncomfortable for some reason or another.
Focus: It isn't by trying or looking for them but I have never dated anyone my own age or older. All of my girlfriends have ranged anywhere form 1-12 years younger than me. I'm 36 and have never dated anyone under eighteen since I was eighteen. I'm not that big of a perv. I did date one girl who loved a rape/hell if I know fantasy. She loved to pretend that she was passed out and wake up with me fucking her. I wasn't into that. Of course she also moved to Florida, met a guy, and named him after me even though we hadn't been together in over a year. Gotta love the sane women.
That was a drunk typo. I meant that she met a guy, married him, and their son has my same first name.
Well that's fucking weird. If a fetish means something that you need to get off, I don't have one. If it means something that makes my brain go to mush: back dimples. Obviously a hot body in general will make me dumb, but back dimples are a whole other level. Like I can't speak. I'm certain it's because of my high school girlfriend's exquisite dimples. They are the sexual dragon I've been chasing ever since. Same goes for a threesome, but despite dimples being more likely, I've never seen another pair that compares. As for weird stuff, I'm pretty boring. Like being dominant. A total ass man. Obsessed with lesbian porn. Have had a couple enthusiastically sub girlfriends who liked calling me daddy -- not something I sought out but when she's into it, it's nice. I've thought about a finger up the butt as a down the road thing, purely because of others' testimony and the biological sense it makes, but my orgasms are already plenty enough for me for now. Only time I couldn't (continue to) do the thing a girl wanted was when she asked for me to slap her face. I gave a light slap but she wanted me to go at least as hard as when I spanked her bum and...just, no. Besides that, bathroom stuff and another dude taking part are the only limits I'm aware of. Had a one night stand a few Halloweens ago (please, hold the applause) with a girl dressed like Alice from Wonderland. Definitely wanna do that again.