WHOA. WHOA THERE. I never posted any nude pictures of my sister. Thanks for helping to clear that up, Rush. Also, I'm married now!
Gender-fluid is a gender identity not a sexuality and has nothing to do with bisexuality. To be honest, I'm not sure I could articulate the nuances that differentiates someone who identifies as gender fluid from half a dozen other similar identities. But, I think a basic breakdown is someone who's gender fluid identifies with both masculinity and femininity, whereas someone who's nonbinary identifies with neither. It's basically different shades of androgyny. (Gender neutral is not for people, it's for objects or spaces that don't assert themselves as meant to be for a particular gender.) I didn't think bisexuality was still confusing for people, but, it means being romantically and/or sexually attracted to men and women. Like, while I'm open to the possibility and have been on dates with girls, I'm not particularly romantically attracted to girls and can't really imagine myself in a relationship with one. It's primarily a sexual interest. And when I'm interested in having sex in general I'd say about 60% of the time I want it specifically with a man, 20% I want it specifically with a woman, and 20% it could be either. And I ID as bi. BUT I'm not always super comfortable with that label because of that lack of romantic interest and because it doesn't really leave room for other genders which I'm also perfectly open to (and I'm not going to go around calling myself pansexual because I'm not a college student on Tumblr). The lack of confidence in the label comes a lot more from pressures from the lgbtq community than straight people. I actually feel like queer is most accurate since it's kind of a catchall for not straight but there's a lot of political weight surrounding the word so I don't always feel comfortable with that either. It kind of shakes out to me using bi around straight people and queer around lgbtq people. Shit's complicated.
Color me surprised if you don't still have a question in this. Dude, make it like a sentence or two. If you can't make it that, then it's not gonna be accepted as reality in the long term. Whenever I think of typing out my marital identity longer than a sentence or two, it reminds me of Portland, and that reminds me to kill my self, and I don't go any further with it. So that's my advice.
Yeah dude that's because you're straight. For the vast majority of people, saying "I'm bi" is enough. You're the one who asked for an elaboration on what that meant beyond "I want to have sex with men and women" and a primer on what gender fluidity means. It's also adorable that you're advising me on how to help make bisexuality accepted as reality in the long term. Besides existing forever, it's been commonly talked about as A Thing since the 50s.
WTF are you guys doing to my WDT? And it was Natty that posted the pics of his sister. There have been so many memorable events over the years. But one stands out in my mind the most. Just sayin'.
I remember after he did it he deleted the link to the site, but I had bookmarked it. I wish I still had the link. If I remember correctly, that guy went to rehab and then got divorced. And then started drinking again. I hope he got it together and all is well.
Natty posted the naked pictures of his sister. She was hot and I am disapointed for not doing the simple right click save at the time. I also think it was Allord that posted the cooking whisk in the vagina/ass thing. I am all for doing what you need to do to have fun. Any girl that removes my underwear, moves my balls out of the way and thinks to herself "I need to stick my tongue in that asshole, right now!" must have been abused as a child or is currently methed out. Much has been talked about female pubic manicuring, porno being laid the blame of the barren pudenda. I am curious as to the few ladies we have left here if you have noticed it on guys? Less talked about but just a prominent if you compare the new gonzo stuff with porn from the 90s and earlier. No one wants to see the behind the balls shot anyway much less if the dude has a hairy ass taint. For simple hygene Ive been flirting with the idea of getting the sensative skin version of Nair for the whole damn area.
Performing anilingus; much like eating broccoli, falls into that category of 'if your parents forced it on you as a kid, you're probably not going to enjoy it as an adult'.