I think it was addressed in the context of funball being weirded out by guys staring at her daughter in public. An internet stranger doing it just cranks up the weird and pushes it into creepy territory.
All I know is thanks to Jenny McCarthy, I know that I can cure autism by loving the person unabashedly. Thanks, Dr Manjaws! You put science to shame.
I guess she should be proud of her little jailbait daughter? I don't get the fantasizing about an 18 year old thing. Ever see and talk to someone that young? They're still kids. Very weird. When I go back to Boulder (because I live in Denver and I have friends up there) I see the freshman and they look so dam young. Yes, I'm not old yet (27), but the older I get the younger they look. Fuck getting older. Changing topics, I have legitimate ADHD and I hate how people think it must be fun or not a big deal. I have trouble holding down a job, I have trouble with relationships all because I can't stay focused day to day and eventually fuck something up, or miss something, or rub someone the wrong way and not know it. For me sitting behind a desk for 8 hours a day for 5 days a week for months on end is dam near impossible. ADHD, legitimate, ain't fun, its annoying.
It didn't help Kip Winger looked like a creepy bastard, but it was socially acceptable for men to bang teenage girls in the 80's. just ask Warrant.
This is how I feel about bipolar disorder. I hate it when I hear some fuckhead (usually a woman) say "Oh, I can be bipolar sometimes," or claim to be bipolar, when all that's wrong with them is they don't have the restraint to control their emotions and act like an adult. My sister is diagnosed bipolar, and she has to take lithium. If she doesn't, she starts freaking out.
Word. I take Adderall because I have to, not because I have a paper to write. Nothing sucks more than your SO telling you she feels like a parent sometimes because you can't keep your shit together. This link explains what it's like better than I ever could.
The point of a fantasy is that they act however you want them to act; That's what makes it a fantasy. I think most well-adjusted individuals understand that fantasy isn't necessarily a reflection of something they wish would happen in real life.
Lol, I've been fired from two jobs, where when my soon to be former boss was ripping me, told me he was sure I was ADHD and asked me if I was. Sooner or later it shows, it always does. Sitting in front of a computer is my kryptonite, even with Adderall I can only do it for about 4 hours a day before my brain starts to turn off.
The link is WAY to TL;DR for my add mind. I've known people that have adhd and they literally can't sit still for more than 10 minutes at a time. Spastic energy and could never stay focused, I don't know how adderall helps them since it seems to get the neurons firing much faster and gives you tons of energy, which they already seem to have a surplus of. I on the other hand wonder if my actions would be enough to be officially diagnosed as ADD or if it isn't just a case of heavily lethargy. My mind wonders off track quite frequently and completing any big task comes down to waiting until the last minute when I'd be forced to complete it or else... My doctor said I could take the test or just try adderall in low doses and ramp it up if I needed. Shit had me cracked out if I took it for a few days straight so I stopped taking it all together. Shit even if there was some task, like studying, I'd just surf the web with much more ferocity and still avoided the work until the last possible second.
Thats one of the things that always made me pause in the Tucker stories, was him banging 18-19 year olds, when he was 30. In the last year, I hooked up with a 20 and 21 year old (all praise Tinder!) and while both of them were fairly composed and mature, it was still weird in a way. I couldn't imagine slicing another year or two off. And seeing freshman and sophomores in college through my sister who is a soph, the percentage of them who are legitimately hot and not just young looking is low, like 5%. Otherwise I find myself thinking, "you'll be trouble in 2 years". Yeesh
The theory is that the prefrontal cortex is understimulated, a stimulant will increase the activity in that portion of the brain. Once the neural activity is sufficiently raised that part of the brain can do its job as intended. The PFC is responsible for higher functions such as decision making etc, it also serves a a filter. People with high activity in the PFC tend to be your calmer, more thought out individuals. By raising activity in the PFC in a person with ADHD it can allow them to be calmer, less emotional, less reactive, more planned out. I know for me, when I'm on the med, my anxiety decreases, I become less reactive, I can focus for extended periods. It makes me more normal. Currently though, the stimulants work, but as to why they work is still a theory.
It is my understanding, concerning ADHD meds, and really *any* neurological drug, that the actual mechanisms that make the drug effective are not known, we only know that they do- OH SHIT A TURTLE, LET'S RIDE BIKES. Where was I?
Well this was weird to come back to. I said my daughter was cute, not hot. Two different things in my mind. Main concern is her naïveté. She's just sort of going about her business not realizing the dirty dirty minds of boys. About a year ago my husband had to tell her she needed to stop walking around in her bra and underwear because as her dad he didn't need to be seeing that. She did it about a week ago coming into my room and I had to point out her brother was now 12. She's a swimmer so her response was "it's just like a suit". No, no it's not. The college she wants to go to to doesn't have any unisex dorms so who knows what will be going on. I don't even want to think about it. I guess my good mood can be ruined today. Thanks TiB. Oh! Just remembered this. She changed on deck one time! I just stared at her in horror as she's telling me. She just said everyone does it. Which is somewhat true as USA swimming now has in their invitations that swimmers aren't allowed to do that. I try to console myself that she didn't want to go out with that one boy because he was a man-whore so she's got some sense. It's a weird dichotomy. Swimmers have no boundaries. I can't even begin to tell you how many of the boys I see with their hands down their pants adjusting themselves all the time. They don't even try to hide it.
Boy, she got around. Both Coverdale AND him? She was a true rock slut before she started beating up professional baseball players.
Tawney Kitaen married Chuck Finley (the MLB player, not the alias often used by Bruce Campbell's Sam Axe on Burn Notice) and got in trouble for beating him up. I guess it's ironic now, that her face looks like she beat herself up.
Alright then, let me make you feel even worse. Her seeming lack of concern for others' opinions and/or dirty minds (and seeming lack of body anxiety) will probably lead to her being slut-shamed for it.