the world is not kind to fat, ugly girls, so their baseline for human interaction can get kind of fucked. for some of them, treating her like a human being might as well be handing her a dozen roses. i've had a problem with a complete dumpster fire of a girl that is a friend of a friend. eventually i had to be openly rude and hostile to her. it sucks, but i don't need her low self-esteem to be my problem.
yeah getting a blow job and only finger banging them confers too much hope you're going to eventually relent to a relationship. edit: since we are being crass pigs towards fat people for a moment i have a argument that came up with me and my friends recently about the lines of hooking up with fat girls. my friends were of the mind that if you are willing to let a fat girl suck your dick it automatically assumed you would also fuck them. in for a penny in for a pound. i on the other hand have always had the standard that a blow job from a very large girl is one thing and fucking them is a totally different thing. they were nonplussed that i had a different standard for different sex acts. my case against them was really they have no standards at all. they've hooked up with some girls, one of which they both ended up fucking, that were so disgusting i wonder if they were just insanely black out drunk and would have never done it willingly.
at first, it sounded like you were being really compassionate and then i was gonna feel a little bad for what i was saying. and then you pulled a total switcheroo on me. bravo, sir.
it's pretty cool that they're doing that, but the tweet totally reads like they're trying to bring christy to justice until you get to the hashtags.
i'm far from a feminist, but i couldn't help but think that when you read a girl saying this about dudes, they get labeled a bitch... me included.
yea, that post doesn't make you look too good. if a woman is nice to a guy because she doesn't want to be a bitch, then he comes onto her and she resists his advances, she gets labeled a tease or worse. kinda shocking how you say you're nice to these women but secretly you kind of despise them. talk to durbanite or gravy about not having this problem, they may be able to give you a few pointers.
i'd agree, but if it was neckbeards going after a hot chick, i don't think they'd be labeled a bitch. no one wants unattractive people coming at them after they've nicely told them they're not interested. then again, i think everyone should fuck a fatty one time. it's simply good karma. i haven't fucked one yet, but i have one in mind.
i would agree with you to a point as well. but the guys are usually neckbeards trying to play a game that they can't possibly win. its not that they aren't in the same league, its a totally different sport. like that post where you see the guy's shadow and it looks like jabba wearing a fedora. and he is hating on people who are in good shape. and claiming he is one of the nice guys. edit: i know you weren't referring to my post about despising them. but i don't despise the girl. my being nice to her was just that. being nice for the sake of not being a dick for no reason.
i certainly don't despise these women, but when they don't take no for an answer and fucking hound me it gets a bit annoying. my female friends bitch about guys that do this shit, and my reaction is "what the fuck is wrong with him? you told him no, why can't he fuck off?" it goes both ways. they always end up getting it from one of their friends who know me. it's just a bunch of small towns surrounded by farmland out here, so people are a little more tightly connected. i'll usually get a call at about bar closing time from a strange number with a slurring woman on the other end. either that or i'll get a bunch of rambling, nonsensical autocorrected texts. here's an excerpt from two weeks ago. for context, i'm 33 and she's 23. i basically told her "thanks, but you're too young for me," which is bullshit, but better than saying "no, i'm not in the least bit attracted to you": Spoiler -help sorry drunk -ok ass hole -sorrry i must be to young -sorry i doint know why i want to text you but i should stop you dont seem into it -but sorry causer i get what i want so what you up too? -geez wwhat is the prob every time fone gose off in hope its you -sorry i should stop textin you -you must not mant me too me- i said a while ago i'm not interested. -or you just a craby old man? -haha me ether -i liike to have fun the next morning: -im sorry i drink to much. -sometimes i get a bit carried away me- no shit?
there's something to this. i've only been with a couple of big girls, but each time i did, good things followed.
i can attest to this, but there's a limit to the fatness. if a guy hasn't done something with a big girl, even in a slump busting situation, he's a liar. but this girl is 3 bills and not much taller than about 5'4-5'5.
i think you guys underestimate how much bigger gals hook up. they may not get the emotional succor they need, but they get down. the overcompensation comes from the fact they probably don't want to be a slam piece for drunk guys all the time. which gives me a sad until... one night a female friend of mine said this gal was into me, that i should ask her out. i politely declined saying i wasn't attracted to her. the only thing we had in common was that we read. my buddy was also going to nail this same chick, that same night; it was a foregone conclusion. so that irritated the living fuck out of me. my friend gets to nail this girl guilt free, but i would have to take her out on a date after she guzzles his baby batter, and i get cuckolded by a girl who is not in my league. fantastic. later, another friend comes up to me and says "oh, you're into so-and-so?" uhm, no. who the fuck keeps telling you that? that's right. the same two girls. fuck you both, kindly, with a cheese grater.
Mother fucker? a) b) see, right there. if you went with option b instead, i think you'd take of the problem. also, on a side note, i think "motherfucker" and "mother fucker" are two different things.
i am disgusted by this board's lack of euphoria. enlighten yourselves. destroy the hive mind!!!!!! #class