You dont have to be thrusting like a porno to have sex. But yeah Ive been out of breath and covered head to toe with a glistening sheen of sweat after a while. Before figuring out it was a simple jacking off problem it had only happened the times the girl was unwilling to finish me off with a BJ* (which I can nut to in under a minute if they are good). I had only finished ONCE inside a girls vag up until a few weeks ago when I tried not cranking it off for a few days before banging out a fuck buddy. So yeah not finishing quickly, or at all, can be quite the curse. Still even after our first season where I came inside her the next two that day I was back to needing a Beej or a Handy. *Chris Rock was right, if your a girl in (2011) who doesnt give head, you're basically like Beta Max.
When I used to swim daily, I used to be able to go for a solid 2 hours taking water breaks here and there. Now, that swimming has curtailed significantly, I'm not near what I used to be like. This was also with a girl who enjoyed that sort of thing. Most women I have been with don't like it to last more than 30-45 minutes. I highly recommend swimming for increasing longevity. Its awesome cardio.
I reccomend buying your lube in bulk unless your partner enjoys internal friction burns. ... There's longevity and there's longevity. The number of women who realistically want regular sexual encounters where there's more than 20 minutes of penetrative intercourse are very, very small. As long as you're not finishing during the warm up, learning to enjoy foreplay will do far more for your odds of successfully satisfying your partner, than building up the kind of stamina where you're going to be humping for 90+ minutes before you finish off. If you are finishing during the warm up, all the swimming in the world won't do nearly as much as rubbing one out in the shower before you go see her.
Thats a good point. I should have said stamina and endurance rather than longevity. I meant having the energy to go for a long time, not necessarily cumming too quick.
I'm of the opinion that there are two types of guys in this world: those who are actively trying not to cum while fucking, and those who are actively trying to cum. Both have their advantages and disadvantages.
The first two or three times we are fucking I am Exhibit A. For the rest of our relationship it would be Exhibit B. What was the Focus again?
I find myself in the first category for psychological reasons. I can't imagine having sex without my partner climaxing. So there I am trying to hold off the inevitable until they get their pleasure in and then it's a pain in the ass to finally get mine in. I can't say the experience is entirely enjoyable for me. Then again, I'm usually the one in control and that allows me to pace myself and make everyone happy. And by everyone, I mean her. I've tried to jump into the second category by making the girl climax pre-coitus so that I could be carefree while we were fucking. It only sort of works and I'm still entirely too conscious and mentally focused on her pleasure. I did have a wonderful experience with a chick who was on top and made it clear that I was going to cum and that was the end of it. She was enthusiastic and performing wonderfully and all I wanted to do was unload. When you guys find out how to identify if a woman is going to be a lazy lay before getting her in the sack, let me know. The only one I've recognized so far is chicks with multicolored hair (like black with white bangs etc).
Nope. I don't have a spare tire, but I've got a fairly decent-sized belly, and the closest thing to cardio I get is the thought "I'll be late for breakfast!". Hydration before and during helps, just remember to keep some water bottles near the bed. Also, sex is generally prolonged if you're not looking at it as just a source of genital stimulation. Have fun. If that isn't enough, may I suggest a conversion to Judaism?