On the topic of porn altering our view of sex: There are many things I enjoy watching in porn that I know for a fact I would hate done to me. When I watch porn, I enjoy extremes (bells and whistles) that would honestly seem way to contrived for real life. I prefer a more simple and natural fuck. So even though I may be deviant in my porn preferences, I don't consider myself one in bed. FOCUS: Like others have said, I love the way it feels when a guy comes inside me. I tend to feel really close to the person at that moment. However, I have no problem getting some seed on other parts of my body from time to time. Mostly though, I do it for the guy.
Ha! Try being one of the poor saps who has to wear those fuckin' polyurethane pieces of shit that cost $12 for six! The one allergy I have, and it has to be latex.
Money shot all the way. I tend to be the submissive type, and I love love love it when my man paints my face/tits/ass/whatever white like he's marking his territory. And there's nothing hotter than feeling a twitching, jumping cock in your hand or mouth when he comes. Dammit, I have to spend the next 5 hours at work thinking about it now. Fuck you guys.
Threads like this is why I like this place, this has to be one of the most "intellectual" discussions on this topic ever in history on or offline. I'm all for the internal. I don't want to use the word creampie, because that actually invokes the imagery of her sitting there trying to push it out which is never the case. I definitely think it's too much work, plus the whole thing of stopping, and jacking it off (which I could do without here there) lessens the experience a little, but all of this has been said. I guess I'm pretty vanilla when it comes to actual sex, and porn I don't think I'm that extreme, being on a dry spell definitely makes me click a few links but, I've watched porn since I could use WinMX to download Jenna Jameson and I never understood the money shot. I had a gf back in college take about 30 minutes to sheepishly ask for a pearl necklace + money shot and gave the best goddamn head performance to get it. It shocked me that she actually wanted it, and she for damn sure wanted it for herself NOT because she thought I'd like it. Of course I did enjoy the head. The posts from the women, once again surprise me a little, but surprise me nonetheless.
I'm all about the creampie! It's a much better experience all around. I've only painted the facial canvass twice, and in both times it was a girl I had been dating, and I found it much harder to kiss her for at least the following day, just knowing that millions of my potential children were dying on her face* / lips... just sayin it's weird *Wanted to find a way to throw that joke into this thread
I agree. This thread rules. I especially like the input from the girls. I'm voting money shot, though I couldn't see someone doing either 100% of the time. This may come across as weird (you know, in normal people circles, not here), but for me the money shot is more intimate, and something I do almost exclusively with a girl I'm dating, because that's the only time I go bareback (and pulling out AND taking a condom off kills any chance of cumming). So part of the intimacy is the fact we're exclusive and going condom-less (though I'm also worried about not getting her pregnant, even with the pill), but an even bigger part is that I feel like I'm cumming for her. Like I'm doing a trick trying to impress her. Pretty sure this began with an ex when we were fooling around but she was on her period. I just started stroking and she kinda giggled and asked if I'd be able to cum just by jacking it and looking at her. Not sure why she thought this would be difficult, but as I was close and she writhed in front of me, she said "oh please Superfantastic*, please cum for me...cum all over me." Now, up until that point, the whole thing was kinda cool, but really only about 12% hotter than masturbating to porn. When she said that, however, my eyes lit up (according to her and based on what a female poster in this thread wrote), and it was one of the best orgasms ever. After that, a part of my penis' brain actually looked forward to that time of the month. I mean, if I could only do one for the rest of my life, I'd choose internal, because it's hotter. But pulling out and trying to cover as much of her _____ as possible is just so freaking fun. *My god that'd be funny if I made girls call me by my username
What the hell? So if she sucks you off it's the same gig? You find it hard to kiss her? I'm sorry but that's just odd. It's not like it's crusted on there. She doesn't have dried cum flaking off of her face. I'm just sitting here shaking my head. I don't get it.
Yeah, get over it. Experienced women are creatures of filth. Virgins all the way. Only thing that sucks is after you fuck the virgin, you have to get another. Or if you're like Shegirl, the odometer rolls all the way around and resets itself.
Let me clarify. The last time I gave a facial was 10 years ago, and I was (an immature) 16 at the time. I have no problem kissing my wife after she blows me today, nor have I with other girls in relationships past. I just remember that being my thought process when I did that with the ex. Right, wrong or just damn weird, thats how my 16 year old brain processed that experience. So perhaps I should have put a little more thought into my origional post. After all I am still a village idiot...
God, this is a tougher call than the pork / beef discussion. Creampie: no logistics to work out with getting into position quickly enough to make it rain in the right location. Finishing off with a tight wet pussy instead of your hand. The ease of snuggling immediately afterwards (I mean, uh, rolling over and falling asleep). Also, with a facial, you really need to either go big or go home: a small amount of ejaculate just ruins what could have been a perfectly nice moment. With a cumshot, it doesn't matter how much comes out. Cumshot: You get to spray her with cum. It's like the male urge to pee on buildings and write your name in the snow, but even better. I guess there is a certain element of dom/sub to it, but it's even hotter when she wants and enjoys it. And it's easier to clean up, too - just wipe with tissue and take a shower. With a cumshot, there's the tricky mess of getting a tissue over her pussy before your baby batter starts dripping all over the place. And if you're not going to take a shower afterwards, there's always the element of her going around with cum residue all over her tits and stomach. I end up going with the creampie most of the time because my girlfriend prefers them. But, as others have mentioned, if it's been a while since we last had sex (we usually go 6 weeks without seeing other a few times during the summer) then I pretty much insist that she get covered with weeks worth of built-up baby juice.
My most memorable orgasm is when I was behind her and something happened, I think my doorbell rang, and I had to pull out but as I was pulling out I came all over her lowerback/ass. It was my first money shot, and my favorite so far. I've given one facial, on my birthday with my ex, it wasn't a good idea. It went everywhere. All that to say, coitus interruptus sucks in general though and finishing inside is way more fun.
As far as the venerable Money Shot goes ; with the advent of 3D tv and more movies being shot in 3D , it could make for some very interesting porn.
Uh...well...yeah, I don't ever want to touch it unless I have to. Shit/piss comes out of me too, doesn't mean I want to gargle with it. I don't have a problem kissing her afterward, but I'd hope she's done her best to swallow all she could swallow. I wouldn't kiss a girl after eating her out if she didn't want me to, but women NEVER seem to have a problem with that, I haven't met one that did...input please?
Excuse me a minute while I nearly choke to death on my beer laughing. Anyways, I'm going to sum up the situation as I see it with a quote from a friend of mine. "I'll suck it, fuck it, and suck it again. But the door swings both ways."
Money shot all the way.. I wouldnt even say its the dominance of the act, more like the sheer joy that washes over me from the moment of humiliation on her faces once I have convered it with a huge load. Even better yet, is when said facial is after I have gone Ass to Mouth and she realizes whats been done, and now has to live with the fact of how big of whore she is.
I thought the money shot was big in porn because it proved the sex was real. That guy really fucked that girl, and here is all the cum to prove it. I saw a "documentary" once about making a porno. They had a new male actor who couldn't handle the cameras and couldn't cum. So they just had him fake an internal orgasm and everyone was pissed about faking it.