Look, I agree that no one is writing to her because of how awesome her profile is - but the reality is that you get better quality results by having a better quality profile. I mean fine, if you're butt ugly - you probably still aren't getting a lot of results, or good results - but a well written profile with pictures of an ugly slapper still gets better results than just pictures of an ugly slapper.
I would be willing to bet money that between two equally attractive girls, if one girl had a lot of 'lol's and used mostly text message short hand in her profile and the other girl had a well written, funny profile with proper spelling and punctuation, the latter would get much better responses.
I am inclined to agree with you. But I feel that your statement reflects how most members of TiB would respond if presented with a choice between a vapid whore and a decently intelligent girl. Most average dickheads don't want that smart girl who can hold a decent conversation. They don't want a girl who can hold her own in a conversation or healthy debate about something going on in the world. They feel that the girl who "lol"s a lot is going to be more on their level. And he's probably right.
I'd argue that on this topic, you are most guys on the intarwebs, and this demonstrates my point - that a well written profile gets responses from people who you might actually want to fuck instead of just horny arseholes.
After a bit of debate and some prompting from Pinkcup, I reactivated and updated my old OKC profile. Poke around (in a figurative sense, of course): <a class="postlink" href="http://www.okcupid.com/profile/snapshotofme" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;">http://www.okcupid.com/profile/snapshotofme</a>
55%match 85%friend 13%enemy Thanks OKC for putting me in the friend zone before I even got acquainted I'm kind of curious as to how their algorithm works for "match" vs "friend" vs "enemy": the highest "match" with ohshit is the sex category(80%) and the ethics is 19%.
Don't you think it will be troublesome if the guy doesn't know you work/worked as a professional escort?
I'm not great at talking about myself, so I'm not sure how it will turn out but this was my first effort. <a class="postlink" href="http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Arsenal_87" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;">http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Arsenal_87</a>
I would strike this. To me, it makes it sort of sound like you would agree to go on a date with a guy and immediately wonder what your children will look like and what their names will be.
Not sure what you mean. "Pussy Galore" worked as a prostitute for a certain period of time. That's a deal-breaker for a lot of guys who would otherwise be interested in a cute-looking girl with a competent profile.
It would also be a specific reason why many creepy guys would hit her up. I totally understand why that wasn't included on her profile. If it is a deal breaker, then perhaps it can be addressed in a more private conversation.
He's saying that the rest of the girls on this board (or in general) are whores, but they don't get paid with straight cash for it. I agree here, if I knew a girl had been a prostitute before I wouldn't give her a chance, but if after three months of dating and knowing she was STD free and everything else was perfect, I'd probably let it slide if I found out.
C'mon man, finding a hot ginger is like spotting a unicorn. Show stoppingly beautiful and enticingly majestic, yet rare, like a cool Asian. Stop trying to steal its horn for ivory money and scare them off.
Did you know that it's possible to get kicked off of Plenty of Fish? And they don't even tell you beforehand.