Get Your Act Together Chompsky, WDT, Today Until Later

Well now that we have someone married to one of the toddlers in tiaras, at least iczorro is off the hook for supplying a link to his sisters cam sight.

As the idiot board turns...

 

You don't have to buy a total beater ($1K-$2K), you can get a ton of car for $5K-$8K. Cars depreciate so much in the first few years of their lives, far in excess of the actual "value" of the car that is lost. My car was $34K new, and I bought it for $7K after 47,000 miles with no accidents or maintenance problems. I'd much rather pay $7K for miles 50,000-150,000, than $27K for miles 0-50,000

 

As I said in my rep to you, I have NO tolerance for lying. I feel I should extrapolate more on that here, since I can't fit all of what I want to say in a rep. I have cut off friends for lying to me, so I wouldn't hesitate to leave a spouse for it. This is a very black-or-white issue for me. As far as I'm concerned, she should have been upfront with me from the beginning, so, when I decide to leave due to her lie/s, it should not strike her as a surprise, since she knew I would as it would be consistent with who I am. I have already terminated possible relationships in the past after the woman lied about aspects of her personality. I don't lie to other people so I expect them to not lie to me, and, when they do lie to me, it's an instant cold shoulder and I cut them off, even if that means losing an entire group of friends because if they side with the person who was lying to me, they aren't worth my time either. Been there, done that.

If *you* could let go of a lie like that, then good for you. I know I wouldn't be able to get around or over it, so I'd leave.

 

Dude, I know she lied to a fellow board member, but not even wanting to be in the same *bar*? Harsh.

 

I think the point is that as much as I believe you when you say you have this bright line against lying, it's hard to give you full credibility when the context is a long term committed, married in fact, romantic relationship.

 

No offense, but lying is a big part of life. Its everywhere and everyone does it. Hell, you almost have to lie to get along in life. The degree to which people lie varies, yeah, but its always going to be there. White lies serve a purpose, and if someone lies about aspects of their personality maybe they are just trying to impress you or try to get along. Imagine if someone asked you to describe yourself and you only said positive things. It'd be perfectly reasonable but to some degree it'd be lying if you left out your negative traits. Of course you wouldn't mention them because it'd almost be inappropriate.

Everyone lies, it just matters if its intentionally malicious or not. And of course the degree of the lie. If you cut off everyone who ever lied to you you'd be utterly alone for the rest of your life.

 

Right. To answer the bolded parts:

I only ever mention my negative traits. If people can't deal with those, then we part ways and I, for one, will not be looking back. If that's wrong, I really don't care, because I have no interest in impressing others. I have to do things in such a way that I can live with myself and my actions afterwards.

The alone part has always been the plan. I never wanted a relationship, kids or marriage. I'd just end up getting bored quickly and be done with it in 3 years or less. I find dealing with other people face-to-face to be exhausting and mostly fruitless, probably because I openly despise most people and make no qualms about it.

In other news, I have now gone a full decade with no sex (with a female someone else, anyway - I've got no sexual interest in guys at all), since my clock here has just gone beyond midnight.

 

Someone throw Durb a bone here TiBettes! Ye gods man..

So I thought there was football today. I was wrong. This makes me sad

 

He doesn't want our help.

 

Worse than that, you could end up being:
30+ and still living with your parents

Jobless

Friendless

Filling your days with whining about how your parents treat you poorly and don't give you the praise being a drain on them deserves.

Somehow proud of the fact that you'll never have any meaningful relationship with another human being.

Convincing yourself that all of this is perfectly normal and that everyone else has issues. Instead of being even remotely interested in getting yourself some help.

Or, you know, pulling a Durbanite.

Dude weirds me out.

 

I'm more terrified by the idea of Sack the Offspring. Hopefully the kid will do long laps in his Mother's gene pool.

 

Listen here you sister-fucking, corn-jimmy-johnny-billy-ray-bippity-bopped, inbred, tooth deficient, undereducated, overfed, redneck, yellowtooth, blackliver, rube-who-hates-people-named-goldberg... I forgot where I was going with this.

 

On the lying thing, people who can move past it - fantastic. Hell, I think I could...hoping that would be the end of it. Hoping that the rest of the relationship is authentic.
People are going to lie to you, at work, at home, and in between. I get that. Sometimes it's self defense, sometimes it's shame, sometimes it's because saying "I like blue" is easier than explaining why blue is the worst color ever. So, lies? They happen.

For the people who can't...man. That is a lonely ass path. I don't want to live the life where I'm so shuttered from experiences that I never know the feeling of loving fiercely, or even having my heart hurt so much it feels like it's going to drop out of my chest...You guys have watched me go through both.

Forgiveness is hard, it is much easier to just cut someone off and move on.

 

Or my family are farmers from Midwestern Canada and I was just going for the cheap laugh. But you know, whatever, get more insecure and defensive.

I think the idea was more that someone who successfully touched your penis could probably talk you into somersaulting over a cliff like a previously-celibate lemming.

 

Ballsack quoted the Bible. I'm thrown for a loop. What is this fuckery?

 

He shall be smited. Or something.

 

I think it's "smote". Thoughts on the method of smiting?

 

God shall turn his wife into a pillar of cocaine.