Age 28. 30, give or take two or three. Only four of them were long term, and those were always the best.
I'm 20 and my tallys 3. Didn't lose my virginity till I was 18 and for some reason I was really embarrassed about it till I lost it. Still kinda wish my score was higher though, sex is fun...
I'm in the upper forties lower fifties. Only six of them were a relationship. Being as I spend most of my spare time in bars, I don't think my number is really that high. Also, being a black athlete at Mizzou is like shooting hot blond fish in a barrel. And I agree with with everyone who said relationship sex is usually better. There were a few notable exceptions, but by and large having a connection, and knowing what your partner responds to usually makes the sex that much better.
I am 26. My number is around 17, I believe. For the most part, they were just fuck buddies. One was a one nighter that I wished turned into a relationship. She was phenominal. I had another one nighter with a couger that was also spectacular. She is more of a friend, that if the opportunity arose, might happen again. But its highly unlikely being that I have a girlfriend. The best sex I ever was with my ex, but she was also bat shit crazy. I think my number is average. There is one girl that I completely regret and only fucked her in a moment of tremendous weakness. But I came in her hair, so it wasn't a total loss. I don't place too much value on numbers, but if shes been with an inordinate amount of guys for her age, I start to get wary.
I didn’t feel like reading 8 pages to see if anyone had mentioned this so I’m sorry for any repeats. I’m 24 and my number is substantial enough that I avoid this conversation at all costs with girls that I am in a relationship with. In most cases I don’t care to know the number of kills the girl has either; largely due to the fact that I have a feral subconscious that loves to fuck with my head and ruin my good times. I just know that if I was a female I would definitely get around as well. I’d probably be in the “closet slut” category, however if I could get off repeatedly during a single lay, who knows where that could lead. This got me thinking. Is there a difference between sluts and closet sluts? Although they both sleep with a lot of dudes does anyone else feel like me and respect closet sluts more? Or at least not mind going home with one? Conciously, I understand that they are ultimately doing the same thing, however for some reason my subconscious doesn’t fuck with me nearly as bad when I sleep with a closet slut. Fucked up I know….anyone know a good psychiatrist?
I'm turning 21 in August and have been with 8 guys (although I see that number going up in the next few months as I just got out of a serious relationship). I find it very hard to be intimate with someone I don't care about, so 4 of those guys were very serious long-term relationships (from about 1 year to 2.5 years). There was also another guy who was less serious, but still long term (6 months). The other three all took place the summer I traveled to Europe. I turned 18 that summer. Even then, I wouldn't consider any of those guys one night stands as we had sex more than once and we considered ourselves monogamous during that time. Just out of curiosity, how does my number seem to you guys?? Are there any men here that think I've been with too many? Another interesting fact is that counting BJ's only adds a couple more guys to the list...like I said, I don't like being intimate unless I really care about someone...so usually if we fool around, we're in a relationship and we end up having sex eventually.
I'm 22 and my number is 23, I started at 18 though, so I guess that's not bad. Although 16 or so were one night stands and 3 were FWB's. I think I'm a bad person.
I'm 30, married, and my number is 15 or 16. I think that my wife told me her number once, but I can't remember, and I really couldn't possibly care less. I lost my v-card at 19, and didn't have sex for the second time until I was 22. I can remember 4 that were relationships of some sort, one friend with benefits, and maybe 5 or so one night stands. The rest were just girls I hooked up with for a little while for fun. In retrospect, I guess I wish I had a higher number, but it isn't that big a deal for me. I mean, regardless if the number had been higher or lower, I'd still want to be where I am now, and the quality with the wifey is much much better than with anyone previously.
My number is either 24 or 25, I started when I was 15 and I'm 30 now, and have had a number of FWB's and one night stands. I've only had one girlfriend actually ask me what my number was. It ended up turning out pretty bad because after we exchanged numbers, I kept thinking of more girls that I had forgotten about. After recalling a couple wild nights, she was not pleased when the number went from like 16 to 19 over the course of a couple weeks. I will say too, that if I could do anything differently, I would have had safer sex back in the day. I've been really really really really lucky over the years especially for being such an idiot about putting a damn condom on. I pray for the younger generation.
I left school early, 15, and immediately walked into a job. So being a rugby representitive, with a job and a nice car at 15 I managed to pull some ass. Unfortunately more than once I managed to convince myself that I was in love, with what turned out to be crazy fucking whores, otherwise I'm sure my number could've been doubled. I'm 21 now and my number stands in the mid 20's to high 30's. If i found out a girls number was even remotely close to that, I'd probably still hit it, but get the fuck out before she woke up.
I made a list for the first time and was actually surprised by my own number. I came up with 25 but I am positive I am missing a couple ravers from my early twenties so 30 is probably closer to the truth. I have boned a dude for every year I have been alive, I don't know if I should be impressed or disgusted.
Well, I'm sure there are 8 pages of similar stories, but I stopped counting after freshman year of college. Not that I have some Brad Pitt going on, but if you go to a Big XII school you have to try to not get laid. I'm not in the hundreds, probably not even 100, but after banging out 30 and remembering maybe 10 of their names, it's kind of pointless to try and keep track. Any girl that asks I just answer with 15.
I'm a little over a hundred, and after reading most of the posts I'm disgusting. Over 3/4ths of them were one night stands, and for the most part I just never had a girlfriend. There are some escorts and massage parlors speckled in there as well. Funny thing my buddy and I tried to count by writing down all the names, I did a good job remembering at least the first name of every girl. I looked at my friends list ant it looked like this........ 1. Amy 2. girl from OCMD 3. Julies friend 4. Girl who knew my cross eyed cousin 5. Girl on my soccer team I was like "are you fucking serious??? especially considering he dated Amy for four years, and "Julie" is my sister and he still see's "her friend" all the time!! The list continued on like that.
I'm 19, and my number is 19 as well, 22 if you include girls. Never had to have an awkward conversation about it though, thank god.
26 years old. I just hit the 22 mark this past week. It's odd going through my list of lays, a lot of girls I will never see/speak with again, mainly because I moved out of state 2 years ago. I usually go on 3-4 month dry spells at times, then out of nowhere I hit a streak and just like that I'm in business again.
Ok, so I read the thread and actually tried to count the number of intercourse partners (I'm 28, and lost my virginity at 18). I know it's more than 10, less than 20, but not quite certain. I find myself unable to remember a few names. Add in those that were blowjob and/or handjob only, and I'm somewhere in the 30's. I'm married now, and have no plans to change that ever, but got to try everything on my list of sexual to do's, so I have no regrets.
5 for me. I'm 21, 4 have been girlfriends, including my current one. She hadn't been with anyone before me, as I was her first. The other instance was a one night stand, but with a girl I knew.
25 and 1. Started off kind of late, and have had a good relationship the last 4 years. Part of me wishes I had more before this relationship just to ease the mind of 'other possibilities', but it also easy on the mind not always comparing one penis-hole to another penis-hole.
I am 32. I was in a long term relationship for 8 1/2 years, so after I was single, made up for lost time, with a vengence. Factor in being a man whore from 14-21, and I have more than I can remember. Have an approximate range, but that's it. Have been on a self-imposed hiatus since New Years. The epipheny hit after awkward drunken fumblings in the back seat of a Prius in a casino parking lot in AZ around Xmas time, it became apparent that I needed a change. The fact that I work 60-70 hours a week at 2 jobs, and am out of town most weeks, and live in a new city where I only know a couple people doesn't make it any easier. I am tired of the empty feeling that comes with waking up next to someone I don't care about. Looking for relationship sex now. I personally don't care about a woman's number, I don't even ask that question. It's pointless. There are way more important indicators of character than the number of dick's she's seen.