How many have you been with???

I really don't know, but I'm confident that its less than 60; it has to be. I've had 5 serious relationships from 16 to present day. I am currently 30.

For some reason, whenever I was out of a relationship, I was just really fortunate with having sex. I don't regret anything I've done with this regard, as it was just how my situation worked out.

I'm married now, and there's approximately zero chance I'm ever going to have sex with another woman again. I still try to get the wife to agree to a threesome when one of her friends comes to visit, but she's just way too shy.

 

The really funny thing is that you were writing this post in your head while you were inside her, and picturing SheGirl's avatar as you ejaculated. Good job, Tucker, we're all very proud of you and your sexual conquests. Do women get really turned on when you whisper "green dot, green dot" in their ear?

Focus:

7, at age 22. That's 4 women and 3 men. I'm a fag or whatever.

 

See, this is the big thing. I avoid chicks who throw out the slutty vibe, it just doesn't interest me for two reasons: 1) Good chance it'll be terrible sex, she just wants cock and isn't willing to put any work into making it fun. 2) I enjoy having longer term sex partners, doesn't have to be a relationship (some of my FWB have gone on as long as four months) but after a while you start knowing what each other likes and doesn't, which makes it indefinitely more fun. Also, people are willing to try more and newer things with someone they're comfortable; I got my brown-wings with a FWB recently.

My number is now at 9. I lost my v-card at the ripe age of 21 and I am now 25 - I was also in a long-term relationship for 3.5 years. I remember most of their names except three; one of which wrote her number for me on the back of an ADAC card which we found the next morning.

 

I've fucked 12 girls at the age of 22. The majority were decently attractive, but then there were that few who I wouldn't have touched with a 10 foot clown pole had I been sober. My beer goggles are a horrible debilitating disability, and are why I've quit drinking about 10 times so far.

 

Getting your brown-wings means giving anal (or getting if you're a chick/gay, I guess) for the first time.

 

I honestly have no clue exactly where I am.

NYE 2008 I was at 14, and decided I was going to have as much sex as possible. Being a bartender definitely helped, because on days I wasn't working, I could just walk into the bar and have my pick for the most part. My girlfriend asked me my number and freaked out when I gave her a rough estimate. She's come to grips with what I did in the past, though she still gives me shit for being a man-whore. When she and I broke up for a month or so, my number jumped another 8 or so.

After I hit 10, I just stopped caring how many girls I'd been with, but I would be able to tell you the first name of the majority of them if I saw their face. I just wouldn't be able to list them since the majority of them are pretty close together.

 

Well, I married my first, and we were together until I was 24. Then I went off the deep end and was kinda slutty for a while. I don't know what my number is, but I'd guess somewhere between 80-100. I'm now 27 and have been in a relationship for a year. But much of that sex was at swinger parties or BDSM clubs, involving upwards of 5-6 people at a time, so it wasn't difficult to rack up that number rather quickly. And yes, I've been tested, and no I've never had anything.

 

21,female & I've been with 7 people.
Four were relationships, one was a fuck buddie & two were one night stands..the one night stands were terrible & alcohol induced..I don't regret them but..maybe a little less whiskey was in order.

Edit: And one girl, yay university.

 

I'm 22 and I've slept with 24 girls. I lost my virginity at the age of 16, I got drunk with a girl I worked with and she insisted on sleeping over. I honestly do not regret it at all. At the time most people thought I was already in double digits, which I was with blow jobs, but I still hadn't actually had sex. From there I stopped putting pussy on a pedestal and just went with the flow. The first 13 girls were a combination of one night stands and fuck buddies through the end of my freshman year of college. At the end of freshman year I got a girlfriend who I was faithful to for 3 years. That ended about a year ago and since then it's been whatever for me.

A conversation recently came up with some of my friends and I about how I actually get laid as often as I do. In the past year I've had sex with more girls than some of my friends have in their lives. I don't think I'm exceptionally attractive, I'm a bit on the chubby side (5'9", 200 lbs), yet I seem to be successful with girls. I don't creep on girls, I generally just bust balls and things go from there. We asked a couple of the girls we hang out with what they think about it, and the 3 answers I got seemed to make sense. One said it's because I can make anyone smile even though I'm a complete asshole, it's all about "my charm." The second told me it's because girls look at me and see a guy they could be in a relationship with, and the third told me it was because I come off as the alpha male in the group.

I honestly don't know what it is, but I'm certainly not complaining.

 

Okay, so you're a clean freak but not in the "let's put things away" sense. Are you an innie or an outie freak?

 

I honestly have no idea. I spent some time thinking about it, and I'm sure it has to be higher than 50, but after that no clue.

I'm 30 now, was single pretty much for all of my 20s. I've lived in south Florida (Boca Raton) for most of my life in the US, with a 3 year stop in Tampa thrown in, so it was never difficult to find a willing partner for a casual romp. Also, working as a bouncer in West Palm Beach in my early twenties skewed my number tremendously.

 

I nominate this for "Favorite Sentence I Read Today."

 

Going ugly early generally helps.

 

12.

 

I'm 28 and slept with girl #30 about a month ago.

Regarding anecdotes: When I was 22 I was dating a 23 year old stripper who told me I was #56. She was my #6. I kept fucking her for another two months. Why? Dude, have you ever fucked a stripper with a coke habit and daddy issues?

 

I'd be embarrassed to know my exact number, but then I'm sure I'm one of the older posters here, and relationships have proven to not my forte'

I'm 47 now, and did the club bartender thing from age 22 til 35. And unless you've done it for an extended period of time, it's hard to comprehend just how easy the pickings can be. Take out 3 years for my first shitty marriage, and another 3 for "mostly" committed relationships, and I get 9ish full years of consistently sowing my wild oats. I'll admit that there were many repeats during the run, but 2 in a bad month and 4 in a good one would still be conservative estimates. I never went home alone, unless I wanted to.

I managed just 1 from age 36 to 43, but quickly reverted to my old habits when that one went south. The only true count I have began when we split the sheets.

So I'll claim a legitimate 16 in the past 4 years. Add in 2 from wives, 2 from long-term girlfriends, and a shit-ton from my bar days.

 

I am 19 and I have had four partners. Right now, I am in a serious relationship with one of them and the other three were all one night stands. The really weird thing about my number is that it wasn't like I had a couple of one night stands once I got to college. They were all spaced approximately one year apart, once each summer starting when I was 16. Yeah, I was really awkward in high school. I told my current girlfriend, when we started dating, that I have had seven sexual partners (including her). It's weird because I told her that at the time because it fit the persona I had built around myself as a guy who could handle himself with women, and it is believable because I am good looking and I have gotten much more confident around women. I can't deny that I didn't get that way from being a Tucker Max fan boy once. I mean I still have a great deal of respect for him, I just don't glorify him like I used to. It's kind of funny how I see some of the people I go to university with who have just discovered him and are going through the same thing. "Have you ever heard of this guy named Tucker Max? HES AWESOME!"

 

I'm 22, I've been over ninety women.

Once you get over 40-50 it becomes hazy, so who knows...I could be in triple digits, but it's doubtful. You go from remembering first and last names, to just first names, to identifying characteristics (Girl with tattoo of Fonzie on her ass, girl with mohawk, etc), to completely disregarding everything besides when and where (chicks at Bonnaroo '07, girl in hotel hallway in New Orleans, etc) . I'm not exactly proud of this, but I would be lying if there's not a tiny part of me that likes to stick out it's chest and go "LOOK WHAT I'VE DONE!". Having a number that high, this young, instantly sets off the bullshit alarm for people who don't know you, so I rarely if ever play the number game. It has come up a couple times amongst friends, but to save drama and storytime I usually throw out a middle of the road number.

For clarification, I lost my virginity when I was fourteen, was over 30 by the time I graduated, played a big time sport at an SEC school, and have worked at bars for the past couple years. It's really not that hard to get laid when you have all that going for you. Let's call it 60 girls since I graduated high school, five years, that's 12 a year....one a month and a drunk hookup every couple months. It obviously didn't happen that way, as I've had girlfriends, open relationships, fuck buddies who are into girls, but still....

It's almost on auto pilot at this point. So many girls have had friends who I've hooked up with, heard about it, then for whatever reason decide it's their turn. Sometimes I'm happy to oblige, other times it's a hassle. I'll be the first to admit that most of the girls I've hooked up with I didn't like. I'd wager that a fair portion of them probably didn't like me, but when you're an 18-22 year old girl it's almost as if it's a right of passage to fuck an SEC athlete, or bang the bartender, etc. Am I being used? Sure. Do I care? Sometimes, but never until after.

It's not all fun and games though. I know, "whaaaaa...whaaaa...I'm getting laid too much!"....hear me out. It gets to the point that you feel like you have to keep one-upping yourself. You have a couple crazy stories, you tell friends, and all of a sudden fucking that sorority girl in her bed doesn't cut it. You find yourself pushing the limits of what's normal to say/do before/during/after sex that it has stopped being something for enjoyment and has now become a never ending competition where the only loser is...you. You'll never win. I fucked a girl in the bed of a truck while my friends drove it through downtown Oxford, MIss on a busy night. Because they said I couldn't get the girl to agree... I didn't have fun with that, but it's another notch, another story. I would have much preferred to fuck her in my hotel, then pass out. But you "can't..."

Not to mention, if you find yourself smitten with a girl, good luck getting her to believe that. You've now got a "reputation". You're only saying these special things to her because "you just want to get laid". Getting laid is fun, but when you give so many people a piece of yourself....what you have left isn't worth jack shit to most. Every girl looks at you like a conquest...a project. She's going to change your ways and be known as the one who tamed you. Which is fine and dandy until she starts running into people you've fucked. The waitress at her favorite restaurant. Her roommates best friend that's at the apartment all the time. Her sorority sisters. Half the girls your friends date. It's never ending...and it's never fun. You lose friends, because they find out that two years ago, on a night you don't even remember really, their current girlfriend they didn't even know at the time, gave you a blow job in a deli bathroom. Whoops? Life is one awkward apology after the next at times.

So, left to your own devices...you do the only thing you know cures boredom and loneliness. You fuck. Slightly overweight bar slut? Sure, I'll take you home. Drop dead gorgeous girl who hates you and is only fucking you because she knows her exboyfriend will hate it? Let's get out of here.

It's lonely. Fun, but lonely. The only way I think I'll be able to have a mature, healthy relationship is to move somewhere that no one knows me, or my reputation.

 

I'm 34, female.

I've had orgasms with: 7 women, 10 men.