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I can't, I'm saving myself for marriage. How about anal?

Discussion in 'All-Star Threads' started by scotchcrotch, Jan 6, 2010.

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Does having anal sex really mean she's still a virgin?

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  2. No

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  3. I'm just here to fuck Chater

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  1. jordan_paul

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    Im scratching my head here, because it amost seems like were trying to figure out why the sky is blue and the grass is green. If a girl just wants it in her ass, let it be.

    It still makes her a whore though, but that's fine.
     
    #21 jordan_paul, Jan 7, 2010
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    I just LOVE how a conversation about buttfucking can be turned into a "bash religion" thread. Lets steer clear from that route, shall we? We good? Good.

    Focus:

    My senior year of high school, I dated a girl who was two years younger than me. She was... how do I say... a little very passionate and insatiable. But there was a problem- she and I were both virgins, and were scared to death of her getting pregnant. We did everything you could possibly think of, but she was terrified of getting knocked up.

    Then one day, we were naked in her bed, messing around with her on top of me, when I notice that she grabs me, positions me in her certain area, and starts trying to grind down. I didn't know what she was doing at first, and it actually hurt a little bit to have my dry dick ground into a non-lubricated butthole. I stop her, and we have this conversation:

    Me: Baby, are trying to do what I think you are trying to do?
    Her: .............................. Maybe.....
    Me: ............ I see you have some lotion on the night stand... Hold on a sec!

    I grabbed some Bath and Bodyworks "Juniper Breeze" hand lotion, lube up, and go to town. From that point on, that became our special little thing. She was actually too embarrassed to even call it what it was- we called it "that thing we did that one time in New Orleans" (that's where we were when it happened the first time). I was on cloud nine, as you can imagine. She was content to remain a "virgin" with a violated butthole, and I got to have what my friends talked about wishing they could do.

    I still considered myself a virgin, though, because we had never had vaginal sex. My buddies were split 50/50 on whether or not it counted. We did end up doing it the real way, but I still think I was a virgin until that time.
     
    #22 Blue Dog, Jan 7, 2010
  3. Evildreams

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    This reminds me of a saying in Italian, which goes something like "A girl must be a maiden before and a martyr behind," that said I guess technically a girl would still be a virgin but a slut who likes it up the ass nonetheless!
     
    #23 Evildreams, Jan 7, 2010
  4. Blue Dog

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    That's why you need the Juniper Breeze- its smells delightful! Although the downside is that I can't walk past that store anymore without working up a lil' chub.

    I also have to imagine that that stuff must have burned if it rubbed up around her 'giner. She never said anything about that, but it always made me wonder.
     
    #24 Blue Dog, Jan 7, 2010
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    To bring religion back into it for a second: that's what the bible folks call a white-washed sepulcher. It may smell nice, but it is still just lotion-covered shit.
     
    #25 Currer Bell, Jan 7, 2010
  6. The Village Idiot

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    If a girl wants to give me a blow job, to 'retain her virginity?' I'm ok with that.

    If a girl wants to get fucked in the ass to 'retain her virginity?' I'm ok with that.

    If a girl wants me to not come while inside her to 'retain her virginity?' I'm ok with that.

    If she wants to do all three in one evening and for me to call her 'The most virtuous virgin ever' I will happily comply.

    Yeah, before I was married, I was with some off center chicks. I'm ok with that.
     
    #26 The Village Idiot, Jan 7, 2010
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    This must be a Catholic thing. I had a GF who refused to use a condom and/or birth control "because they were frowned upon" and wouldn't let me come inside her because she was "saving that for marriage." Her brother and his gf used the same method and ended up pregnant after two months of dating...

    EDIT: Sorry, BlueDog...
     
    #27 Drake, Jan 7, 2010
  8. Blue Dog

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    Once again, and I've asked nicely once already, STOP with the religion bashing. This is my last warning.

    Talk about how a person's religion may play a part in whether or not they will take it in the butt, or how different religions may have different techniques of going ATM. That's fine. But I'm not going to put up with the stupid "Religion sucks! All people who believe different than me are morons!" posts.
     
    #28 Blue Dog, Jan 7, 2010
  9. Primer

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    Word on the street is the bitch was carrying coke across the border and the baggie popped. Gave her a deviated asshole and the shitpussy bone is connected to the pussy bone.

    aka Preggo by bumseks.
     
    #29 Primer, Jan 7, 2010
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    Of course they aren't virgins. I'm not even sure why this is an argument.

    We should have an alternative focus where the three girls on the board talk about their feelings on getting banged in the bottom. That would at least be entertaining.
     
    #30 Frebis, Jan 7, 2010
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    I agree. Also, don't forget about the 10 or 11 dudes pretending to be girls. Their opinions matter, too.
     
    #31 Beefy Phil, Jan 7, 2010
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    Let me ask yall this, to those who say that it unquestionably an act of lost virginity:

    Does the same hold true for blowjobs? You are in fact penetrating the other person for pleasure. Both are orifices that can be used in place of the 'giner. Yet, I'll be really surprised if there was one person here who would think that you would no longer be a virgin if you gave/received a blowjob.

    What is the difference between the mouth and the butt, with regards to virginity?
     
    #32 Blue Dog, Jan 7, 2010
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    I think it all comes down to the definition of virginity. Scootah said it best when he noted that we'd have to massively revise it, given some of the sex practices and beliefs that are coming up in this discussion. If you know what the definition of virginity is (in this context), then the question should be easily answered.

    If you look at the root word, it breaks down to "sexually inexperienced woman." Well, personally, a female who's given a blowjob and taken it up the ass isn't sexually inexperienced. And what about two men? Are two homosexual men 'virgins'? It'd be impressive if we could reach consensus on what a 'virgin' was.
     
    #33 Dcc001, Jan 7, 2010
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    It certainly indicates sexually active to me. I don't understand all of the "grey area" people have to rationalize their actions.

    Wherever you are willing to take a cock, the fact that you are taking it cancells your v-card.
     
    #34 PIMPTRESS, Jan 7, 2010
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    CW got it right... Any other definition is antiquated and ignorant of the idea that was being laid out for "saving it until marriage." What good is your unused honey pot if you've wrecked your brownhole to keep it that way? You are a SLUT. Your husband is not gonna care that you saved one hole for him when you've let 100 dudes run train on your mouth and ass.
     
    #35 Drake, Jan 7, 2010
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    Stop it with this nonsense. You are getting away from the alternative focus!

    What about handjobs? Girls that use tampons? Chronic Maturbaters? Finger blasts?

    In my mind the mouth makes you remain a virgin because it is above the waist line. Yes this means a girl who has been scrogged in the knee pit is no longer a virgin.
     
    #36 Frebis, Jan 7, 2010
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    Focus: You have buttsecks, you're not a virgin anymore. Plain and simple.


    Alt. Focus: My boyfriend and I have tried buttsecks. Twice. Both times it was extremely painful. Used a ton of lube and everything, but still really painful. Would I do it again? I keep telling him I will, but honestly I don't know if I could get passed the pain. Ladies, any help here??

    I've always thought it was knid of gross to begin with. Like someone else said, "exit only". But when you're drunk, those thoughts tend to go out the window.


    Edit: No, that's not me in my avatar. Thank god.
     
    #37 Trickysista, Jan 7, 2010
  18. The Village Idiot

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    When I get stuck on responding to an argument, I usually go to the dictionary.

    From dictionary.com:

    Virgin: noun, a person who has never had sexual intercourse. Ok, that's interesting, but what's 'sexual intercourse?'

    Sexual Intercourse: noun, genital contact, esp. the insertion of the penis into the vagina followed by orgasm; coitus; copulation. That esp. - especially - is interesting, so I read further.

    Another definition: Coitus between humans. Sexual union between humans involving genital contact other than vaginal penetration by the penis

    So, I am going to conclude that Frebis is correct, there's not really an argument here, based on the definition.

    Again, I concur.
     
    #38 The Village Idiot, Jan 7, 2010
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    Oh, they would disagree with me. This is because they want to hold onto something their mom told them was special and/or important to being "clean." Women are inundated with mixed sexual messages from very young. Most never have a real clarity about sexuality and their identity.
     
    #39 PIMPTRESS, Jan 7, 2010
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    God invented enemas for a reason. That hole gets very clean very quickly. Do it for your boyfriend. he will love you even more.
     
    #40 Frebis, Jan 7, 2010
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