I've had a history of only dating pretty unstable people. I'm trying to curb this habit and the last two people I dated were for the most part, balanced. Problem is, they were both kind of boring people. Not very sexually adventurous. Lacking an overall passion for anything. Mostly reserved. On the plus side they didn't try to stab me, or freak out every other day. They provided a nice stability to my life, but they left me with so much repressed energy of every kind, I just couldn't ever deeply love them. This week I met two people for "dates". One was like the above. Pretty normal, but I can tell just from the first interactions she's going to be very bland. The second girl, wowzers. I don't think there was enough room on the dinning table to plant all of the red flags, but what she lacked in sanity, she made up for in raw passion. Smart, quick witted, oozing sexuality, but she's fucking nuts. In just a general listing of experience, are there other options out there? Just from the small sample size I have, it seems that finding a girl who fits in nicely between these two extremes is like hunting for a golden unicorn. Dating has been terribly disappointing so far.
I know what you mean, when I watch a movie about a Norse God, a guy that has a flying suit made of iron, a secret syrum induced soldier who wears tights, and a guy that explodes into a giant green he-man, I expect some fucking realism.
I don't know shit about comics, but can I just say Captain America looks fucking ridiculous. How conspicuous can one man be? I know the solution for Captain America on the WWII battlefield.
Saw The Avengers last night. No orgasm for me, but very god nonetheless. In more impoprtant news, i was actually stunned by how fucking small the shorts are that girls are wearing this year. I think I'll go celerate with some sangria.
Things I did last night, while kinda drunk: Post a bunch of pictures here Try to take sexy pictures of my belly button Buy Anthony Jeselnik's Shakespeare via Itunes. No regrets, you guys.
There are obviously middle grounds, but I find sometimes its the extremes that are noticeable in the first place. I can't stand vanilla girls, never have been able to, and usually they are put off by my antics. That being said, when I find the passionate girls like you mention, maybe not patently or apparently crazy, I can't be that shocked or surprised when they turn out to be flakey or nuts. Its kind of the trade off. Eventually you find the passionate wild one that fits and doesn't flake out and just works, thats what dating is for. Or thats what I tell myself when another girl I was really into completely stops all communication.
Well I've built up some good karma that has to pay off sometime soon. Went out last night, hooked up JWags with his first really cute, extremely nice assed chocolate bunny. I get double karma because she wanted him also so she's super grateful, no idea why though. He's kind of an asshole. Then the other girl I invited out, I pushed her into this guy she thought was cute, and they started talking. She ended up taking him home and knocked off "huge black guy with dreads not named Nom Chompsky" off her bucketl ist. And I ended up going home, passing out on the train going to the end of the line (15 stops past mine maybe?), and on the way back the back throwing up between train cars (dangerous, stupid, illegal). I just finally got out of bed just now after feeling like death. So I'm OBVIOUSLY the winner of the weekend.