There's some fun, sexy ideas here... http://www.hulu.com/watch/187738/saturday-night-live-sex-ed-vincent
It's been mentioned before, but responsiveness/enthusiasm is the No. 1 turn-on for me. If a girl is obviously enjoying herself and giving as much as she's taking, I'll be able to get off even if I've downed a fifth of whiskey. Knowing she's had an orgasm or three gets me going even more. The League was just mentioned, so to add another reference, I'm also a lot like Kevin: extremely aural. Dirty talk or loud moaning will finish me off quicker than anything else. Why I'm admitting this on the TiB, I don't know, but my favorite kind of sex is definitely slow, intimate and sensual. I've had more than my fair share of emotionless one-night stands. This isn't meant to be braggadocio. I'm just saying I've pile-drived enough bar-sluts into the headboard to know that it doesn't compare to having sex with someone with whom you actually share a connection. Not saying you can't have rough sex with someone you care about, that's definitely awesome too, but I prefer the "making love" sex to "fucked-in-half" sex. It's hard for me to finish if I'm slamming away as fast as I can. My vinegar strokes usually have to be slow and measured.