Boo, yes. I keep cockblocking myself lately because I keep giving blowjobs and then they're unable to keep going after that. It is the worst. I'm going to say basically the same thing, because those averages seem really low to me. I don't think I have many female friends that have slept with less than ten guys, let alone less than 4 guys.
That makes sense, I guess the other variable for me is I rarely have sex with someone just once. In fact.
See what I'm saying? If we're going by numbers alone, Audrey doesn't seem promiscuous at all, but really it's only because she's so good at blowjobs.
See, I'd stick around after a good blowjob. And probably return the favor. Reciprocity is the heart and soul of good sex. Either you are so good the guy forgets where he is or you have lousy taste in men.
A tall, successful lawyer driving a BMW is in the lead? Stop the presses. Edit: Also he lives/lived in a city, I agree with Hoosier that that is a factor. More night life and a bigger pool. Living in a rural area I see MAYBE 3 non-hideous girls in my age group a week. In other news I'm ring shopping to lock this shit down.
These have been in one night stand type situations. When I'm drunk and sexually frustrated, I tend to just leave.
Bullshit. I live roughly in the middle of the Appalachians, and while there's plenty of 'saving it for marriage' types, there's many more than are not. Mostly for the simple reason that in a town where Wal-Mart and an annual bluegrass festival are the main attractions, there's not much else to do besides drink/drugs/fuck. I'm well above the average number for men as well, at 22-23 partners. Most of the women I've been with have had less than ten previous lovers, with a handful of virgins or 10+ thrown in. So rural areas wouldn't necessarily bring the average down. While I could see where a city-sized population might throw the numbers off as well; you have to factor in that there's generally more to do in a city that would keep people otherwise fucking, occupied with activities not offered in more sparsely populated regions.
These numbers usually don't mean shit unless you put them into context. I lost my virginity at 15. I'm now 31, and have had sex with 44 women. That means I've been with 2 to 3 women per year for the last 16 years. Not very remarkable. The truth is though, that I'm a bit of a slut. If I could have fucked more women in that time period, I would've. I just didn't become very good at it until my later 20's, when I discovered the magical vagina pass code. Most of the women I've been with actually took place during a 3-4 year period. As of now I've been in a relationship for the last few years. There are times when I wish I was single again, but then I think of dry spells and dodging STD's and I quickly change my mind.
At 26, Ive been in 2 long term relationships including my current one, and my number is 22. My girl has been with 3 people including me, and I like it that way. The average does seem low and Im willing to be people flat out lie as well. Women have to combat an unfair social stigma, so they may feel pressure to lowball the number.
Are you the Puerto Rican chick I banged while absolutely blacked the fuck out in Tampa a couple months ago who I only remembered even being there when I saw the used condom on the floor and her earrings in the hotel bathroom by any chance?? Focus: I'm way over the "average" and so is pretty much everyone I know, male and female. To be fair I spent the first 25 years of my life living in or near a major city (6 of those years were in Boston, which might have the sluttiest girls of any major city in the US) and the past 3 in the military. I'm 28 and have lost count, although I think I'm in the high 30s/low 40s (not bad considering I didn't lose my virginity until 2 weeks after my 18th birthday, and dated that girl monogamously on my end for the next year and a half). As far as a partner...I'd prefer a lower number but as long as she's clean and the number isn't insanely high it's not a dealbreaker.
A little above average at 10. 11 if you count being inside her but too drunk to keep it up. Only a few of those girls are one might stands. Most are girlfriends or long term fuck buddies. I discovered early on that sex with a girl who has learned how to work you is far better than lots of random hookups. Like most everyone else, I don't care how many guys a chick as fucked as long as she is emotionally stable and confident and not because there are underlying daddy issues. Blowjobs however bother me a little more. I had a Clerks moment with my last girlfriend when she told me that when she was in college if she liked a guy she would just blow them and not have sex. She implied that there were a lot of guys and I ended the conversation there.
Because the man ejaculates, in or on the female, women will always be encouraged to keep their legs closed. A squirt of seminal fluid from afar will transmit disease to the recipient but not necessarily vice-versa.
Hmmm. More than 20. Less than 30. Without sitting down and writing names I can't be exact. I'm sure that makes me a dirty slut in some people's eyes but whatever. Ive never used sex to validate my self worth, and I dont respect people who do. I don't hate on anyone for having sexy times - but do it because you met someone you want to get nasty with, not because it might fill a hole in your soul.