Rant: Took a tight corner on the highway that has a warning to slow to 40kph at speed(100kph) just as a cop appeared on the other side. Pulled me over, didn't get me for speeding because technically it was only a warning to slow, but somehow i had forgotten to renew my insurance 14 months ago. And he got me for now snow tires on the highway, hasn't started snowing yet, so i haven't put them on but it is the law. So there goes a 700 dollar ticket.
Rant: love receiving a wedding invitation to my siblings wedding in Alabama literally a month before the wedding date, via text. Like, am I on the hook for upending my life and paying out the ass for airfair for a few day's trip? Our family is just now recovering from almost 15months unemployment. I don't particularly get along with my brother and we don't speak or text. I've seen him a few minutes each time I flew out to visit the last couple years. But I'll be the one damaging things if I don't show, I'm sure. But it's your brother! All my petty feelings are surfacing right now and it makes me feel like the shittiest human alive.
Don’t feel that way. I have a complicated relationship with my sister and others in my family. Don’t let them put it all on you. Relationships go both ways. If you’re always the one compromising that’s not a relationship, that’s people taking advantage of you.