One time I had the stars align and I slept with three girls in one day with zero problems. It was definitely like Indy waiting for the light to hit the Staff of Ra just right, but it was fun. It also helped that it wasn't really planned, lord knows if I planned something like this now I'd just think about it too much, get tired, and take a nap. Girl #1 had slept over and she woke up early to go home, but she woke me up getting out of bed and we had sex again. I then went to work and at the time I was also seeing a girl that worked in the building. Well she happened to come by my office, we started flirting and she suggested we go by her place for some afternoon delight (she lived nearby and we had hooked up at lunch time before). Then that afternoon another friend texted me to go out for happy hour, and that turned into #3. God that sounds exhausting now. I think I'll take that nap anyway.
::cracks knuckles:: alright, lets get this list going: 1) One of each of the major ethnic groups (White, Latina, Black, Asian, Indian (dot), Indian (feather), Ginger). 2) Ebony/Ivory (that is to say girls with extremely dark or pale skin, that is uniform in tone). 3) MFF... N-some 4) Soonergal 5) TX 6) Roxanne 7) A romantic BDSM relationship. I've been in extended sub/dom relationships before, but more as a fuckbuddy/fwb situation. I think romantic love would add an interesting and valuable dynamic.
After putting up the blinds in the living room and office, he puts away all the dishes and washes the dog. Then after watching some Bob's Burgers, he massages my feet and chokes the fuck out of me while splooshing everywhere like a rogue lawn sprinkler. Afterwards we may eat a snickers or maybe some ice cream, but I need lactase pills for that. The end. Ps the dog is hiding in the other room. We scare him sometimes. In my fantasy I mean.
I thought 2 and 3 were just standard things that happened in regular vanilla sex? Lately, I've been fantasizing about threesomes. I'm probably going to have a MFF soon with a couple, but I'd definitely be more into a MMF. Other than that, I've made basically everything I'd want to happen sexually happen.
Well, VI just came off a 7 month dry spell, so after dropping the obligatory #1, he didn't want to get greedy.
Yeah, like 4 years ago. Most of that was spent in a relationship where we just experimented with everything we wanted to do. I'm pretty open to trying most things, but I can't explicitly think of anything that I would want to try that I haven't already done, except for the threesome thing.
My bucket list as it stands is, -sex in a public place -car sex -road head -sex out doors -get the girlfriend to masturbate in front of me
This generally shouldn't be a very difficult task assuming its not being approached in a creepy way. Meaning, you want her to do it in the moment maybe, or during sex a little bit. If you make it seem like you want to pull up a chair along side the bed and just watch her do it, it will probably be slightly off-putting.
Yeah not to make anyone feel bad, but how does the 'watch your partner masturbate' one not just happen naturally? Especially from a guy's perspective, since a girl playing with herself is so freakin hot? One of my favourite foreplay things to do is make out while she plays, then watch up-close for a few minutes before digging in. S'delicious! Within the context of a MFF threesome, I could probably list 100 specific things I'd wanna do. Number one is go down on a girl with another girl. Ideally, the girls would 69 and I would go back and forth, pleasuring whichever parts they already aren't. More than most guys, it seems, the lesbian aspect has much greater appeal to me than the banging two girls part. At least it does when I fantasize about it, and I watch way more lesbian porn than hetero. The idea of being mostly a prop sounds perfect to me. Until the end, after they've gotten off. Then it's double beej time. So why is that? Happyfunball's post about getting too overwhelmed by dick to enjoy it makes sense to me. Or is that the turn on?
When girls are really uncomfortable so much as discussing the subject of masturbation with you. Or when they claim to not masturbate. That's when. EDIT: Or when I'm just so amazing in bed that she doesn't want to touch herself because she tells me I'm so much better. You know.
I even like to break the ice by allowing THEM to watch ME masturbate. This is generally done by the second date, third at the very latest.
Yeah, because just once in a restaurant on a first date and apparently you aren't allowed back and you're hit with these "labels." Whatever.
I had a FWB tell me that her biggest turn-on is watching a guy jerk off. I laughed my ass off and had a hard time taking her seriously after that. Every time we had sex I'd joke around about it. "Hey Ashley, look! I'm jerking off."
Its all about where you draw the line between what constitutes a privilege(for others) and indecent(decent) exposure.
Any girl who says this has either never seen a man jerk off, or hates herself and feels she deserves punishment. With women, its sexy because they are sort of resembling sexual movements. Somewhat graceful. With a guy, its purely about a means to an end and generally needs to be over quickly. Therefore, not graceful, frantic, and not at all what sex feels like.
No, she actually liked it. I was just fucking with her but she'd still get legitimately turned on, it was hilarious.
Hey now, as a rule, I used to ask guys to jerk off in front of me once or twice so I could learn what moves really got them off (pace, rhythm, grip strength, etc.) which I would then apply to my own processes. Now the only time I get to watch it happen is when the husband wants to blow on my face.