If the idea of using a specialized skin care product doesn't make you feel like your man card is slipping through your fingers, exfolation is the answer. Specifically, chemical exfoliation. Many different skin care brands sell pads soaked with alpha/beta hydroxy (I use Bliss, but something tells me our friend Aetius isn't going to drop that much coin on crotchal exfoliation), which you just rub on the shaved area after you shower and then follow with lotion. It kinda tingles, but daily use will make your ingrown go away gradually without having to pick at it. Continued daily use even when there hasn't been a tragic accident prevents more of them from cropping up. If you must pick at it, use sterile tweezers to remove the hair only, and follow with Neosporin or similar antibacterial ointment. No digging. See above.
Fuck no, you gotta get that shit out. They don't naturally go away. I am the queen of ingrown hairs: I have very dark, thick hair follicles and if I blink wrong I'll end up with 20 of them. I find that there are 2 kinds: the pimple looking bump, and the kind that lays along the surface and that you can see through the skin, but does not cause irritation (my finer hair causes these on occasion). For the first type, I scrape or pick off the head, and then pick out the hair. When I first started realizing what ingrown hairs were, and taking care of them, I removed a couple that were more than an inch long. I have dainty lady fingers with nails, so you might be better off using tweezers for these maneuvers. For the second type, get a safety pin, put a little alcohol on the tip to sterilize it, and then scrape off a tiny layer of skin to get to the hair underneath. Just to be sure you don't get an infection, get some antibacterial cream and put it on the location right after you get the hair out.
I remember asking a girl many years ago if I could give hers a shave. She immediately replied, "Why, do you like fucking little girls?" I haven't even thought about that in so long. Thanks y'all. Focus: Giving myself the works tonight: Legs, ass, balls and bush. Just waiting for my roommate to leave for her "hookup" with the businessman from out of town. She got these new vagina decorations. It's like "bling" for the vagina. Vagazzle I think she called it. She shaved herself a putting green landing strip and then body glued the gems like landing lights around it.
Yes, this. It feels heavenly when a girl is giving you a blowjob and she gives a little attention to the balls. Now, I'm not in the habit of licking balls. BUT. If I were, I would imagine that I would be less inclined to lick hairy balls. I've always seen this as a pretty solid argument for shaving ones balls. Correct? That being said, balls are really tricky bastards to shave. I tried shaving the whol business once, when I was 15 or so. I must not have done a good job, because my pube area got some rather unflattering razor burn. That is not a region where one wants razor burn. My girlfriend of the time literally laughed at me. Those of you in the "WOULD NOT TOUCH" camp... assuming they were good-looking enough to sleep with anyway, the rest of us will gladly take them and probably strike them as less of a dick. So I'll count that in the win column.
I don't know what pubice is. But the rest of it sounds pretty good to me. Perhaps. I happen to think that REQUIRING a girl to be entirely hairless before you'll go down on her indicates that you're easily squicked out and somewhat demanding. These things aren't usually associated with kinkiness.
We aren't saying a bald pussy makes us think of ten year olds, we're saying that when someone "refuses to touch, bang or fantasize" about a pussy UNLESS it's bald, it comes across as prudish, at best, and pedophile-ish, at worst. Still wondering what this girl you turned down had to say, by the way. I can think of a couple times where I had first-time sex with a girl sooner than she expected. Each time they apologized in advance, and each time I laughed and then still had sex with them. Sure, I didn't go down on either those first times, but the thought that I wouldn't still have sex with them -- let alone touch them -- was comical. FOR FUCK'S SAKE, WHY WILL NO ONE LISTEN TO MY MASTURBATE-FIRST TECHNIQUE? IT'S AWESOME.
Last week, I left the dregs of some coffee with milk in a thermos. When I opened it yesterday, I couldn't stop laughing, because it smelled exactly like the vagina of the random I lost my virginity to. Edit: Even that didn't turn me off, the hair phobias bewilder me.
Am I the only guy here who doesn't give a fuck as long as he's getting the pussy? I love them in all shapes and sizes and as long as there is good hygiene, I don't give a fuck.
Ive actually been experimenting with this manscaping business in the last year or so. First up i went for the full shave but that just looked ridiculous... also being my first time shaving that area i made a few mistakes (not enough prep, not enough shaving cream and shaving against the grain) and ended up with some nasty ingrowns, one of which turned into an epidermoid cyst on my nutsack... which i had to get removed (if you thought having a razor near your balls was an intense experience try a scalpel being wielded by a semi-geriatric doctor for shits and giggles). After that disastrous start i went for something a little less extreme and left a trimmed patch at the top (vaguely trapezoidal in shape), the gf much preferred this to the babies arm look. The itching on my balls and taint as i got grow back was un-fucking bearable though. I loved the feeling of freshly shaved balls but how do you guys deal with the itching? Do you just get used to it or shave them pretty regularly to avoid it? Since i couldn't deal with the itching i now just go for a once over with a beard trimmer to keep the hairs nice and short every couple of weeks. I do miss having my freshly shaved balls sucked though, it really is fucking amazing. In regards to the ladies i do prefer fully shaven/waxed but i ain't no pussy snob, if its clean and at least some effort on maintenance has been put in then pretty much anything goes i think. Having said that i have never been with a chick that hasn't been fully shaved or at most just a small landing strip (I'm 27), while my sample size isn't massive (15) i don't think its that much of a stretch for someone my age to have never seen a full on bush (outside of 80's porn that is).
I don't understand all the trouble you guys seem to be having shaving your balls. Once a week or so I'll just bring my razor with me in the shower and just go to town on my balls. No soap or anything. If things are getting itchy as they sometimes do if I haven't shaved my balls in a while and I'm in a rush, I'll just rinse off my razor in the sink and just have at it. I've never once nicked any part of my nutsack. As far as the rest of the area goes, I'll just run my beard trimmer through it maybe once a month. Never heard any complaints. For a woman, I do prefer shaved but I'm certainly not turning down pussy because it is hairy. As long as it isn't completely unkempt it's no big deal. I will, however, become increasingly less agreeable to eating the snizz the more hair their is down there. Sex is all good regardless. I might not even notice how much hair is down there if your tits are big enough.
I trim using scissors and then use my razor to even it out. I've never really razored my balls before, more just been really careful with the scissors to hit to longest parts. I feel like no hair looks weird on my junk. I'm gonna have to try the ball shaving sometime soon. I don't know about the rest of you, but I have a fuckload of asshair. More than my pubes. Every month I have to take like 30 minutes out of my day and attack that with a Fusion razor or else wiping takes 8+ wipes and I start sweating at the first sign of heat.
Jesus how do you deal with the chaffing once the stubble returns? I tried it once when I was 17 and FUUUUCK it damn near had me in a wheelchair with pain. If I had the money to blow I'd get it permanently lasered off until that day arrives Ill just use flushable wet wipes, gold bond, and absolutely refuse to allow any girl who wants access to go past my balls. I don't think Ive ever turned down sex but I think it has to be 95+ percent of the time a girl has an unmanicured bush has resulted in my refusing to go down on them. As mentioned there are some funky smells that can emanate from said pussy, these flavor savor pubes are compounding the problem because they hold the smell in. Keeping it trim or bare reduces the chances of this dramatically. Call me childish if you want but it is in league with girl and their spit swallow argument.
Nope. I'm having fantasies of hot men in the shower, looking down at their junk with a razor in one hand and soap trickling down their chests, sliding it's way down over slick wet muscles and taught abdomens... 'scuse me. I need to go use my private washroom now.