Adult Content Warning

This community may contain adult content that is not suitable for minors. By closing this dialog box or continuing to navigate this site, you certify that you are 18 years of age and consent to view adult content.

The Pet Thread

Discussion in 'Permanent Threads' started by Nettdata, Oct 21, 2009.

  1. Gravy

    Gravy
    Expand Collapse
    Emotionally Jaded

    Reputation:
    256
    Joined:
    Feb 25, 2012
    Messages:
    1,715
    Location:
    The void.
    And? Don't leave us hanging here ffs.
     
  2. Nothingdoing

    Nothingdoing
    Expand Collapse
    Experienced Idiot

    Reputation:
    59
    Joined:
    Oct 20, 2009
    Messages:
    159
    Location:
    London, UK (Previously Auckland, NZ)
    It's been somewhat of a whirlwind with her as forgot just how energitic springers are. (Made that much better due to not being allowed out yet due to vaccinations)

    Skye has settled in well and is incredibly intelligent and playful, though she as still yet to learn that the cats are in charge.
     

    Attached Files:

  3. wexton

    wexton
    Expand Collapse
    Emotionally Jaded

    Reputation:
    363
    Joined:
    Oct 21, 2009
    Messages:
    3,306
    Location:
    North Coast BC
    20201107_193232.jpg

    The dog decided to get comfortable for about half a movie the other night.
     
  4. shimmered

    shimmered
    Expand Collapse
    Emotionally Jaded

    Reputation:
    351
    Joined:
    May 12, 2010
    Messages:
    4,469
    Daisy is still trying to figure out how to dog without Duke around. We’ve been taking her for walks and the like, but...she’s off her food and very not herself.
    It hasn’t been a week yet, so we are not too concerned (but are watchful) but I think if it stretches beyond three weeks or so I’m going to get worried about her.
     
  5. GTE

    GTE
    Expand Collapse
    Emotionally Jaded

    Reputation:
    609
    Joined:
    Oct 20, 2009
    Messages:
    3,097
    So having that stray/wanderer cat for a little bit made us realize that we miss having a cat.
    These two sisters popped up on a local FB page and well, they're now ours.
    Names TBD
     

    Attached Files:

  6. tweetybird

    tweetybird
    Expand Collapse
    Experienced Idiot

    Reputation:
    30
    Joined:
    Oct 21, 2009
    Messages:
    247
    Location:
    SF
    As I posted in somewhat distraught fashion, we said goodbye to our pittie at the end of June. Her successor just moved in a couple weeks ago and has made herself right at home. She's 4, so none of the puppy shenanigans, and sweet as can be. It is SO good to have a dog again!

    97D5B947-01E1-4527-AF66-B93CEC8CED28.jpeg
     
  7. madamsquirrel

    madamsquirrel
    Expand Collapse
    Average Idiot

    Reputation:
    6
    Joined:
    Mar 5, 2010
    Messages:
    84
    20201029_220452.jpg sharkhead nachos and I were adopted by this guy 3 weeks ago. He showed up and we tried to find his owners if he had any (unsuccessfully). He has made himself right at home like we are his people and he has always lived here. We named him Woodford and call him Woody.
     
  8. GTE

    GTE
    Expand Collapse
    Emotionally Jaded

    Reputation:
    609
    Joined:
    Oct 20, 2009
    Messages:
    3,097
    First timer rehoming cats of this age (8 months). How long does it take for them to be acclimated? One comes out from under the bed a little but *anything* spooks her and she's gone. We have not seen the other one leave the safety of the bed other than one time when I woke up in the middle of the night and she was eating. The look on her face was pure terror and zoomed back under the bed. Is this normal?
     
  9. Nettdata

    Nettdata
    Expand Collapse
    Mr. Toast

    Reputation:
    2,984
    Joined:
    Feb 14, 2006
    Messages:
    26,469
    Totally normal.

    Can take a couple weeks for them to be comfortable in my experience.
     
  10. bebop007

    bebop007
    Expand Collapse
    Emotionally Jaded

    Reputation:
    57
    Joined:
    Jan 12, 2010
    Messages:
    696
    Location:
    Chicago
    Our cat Ponyo was like this and it really took a while for her to not be as anxious and scared. When my wife and I moved in together (when we adopted our cats, they lived with my wife at first) it probably took a number of months before she really got comfortable and wouldn't bolt as soon as we came in a room. In fact, when we first got her, she burrowed herself underneath the mat in my wife's bathroom and we just had a mobile bathmat for a few weeks.

    Now? She's a total, shameless cuddlebug. Most mornings I wake up, she's draped across me purring up a storm. And we would have to shove a bowl of food under our bed because she would hide when we would feed her and didn't want her sister to eat her food. Now we have the opposite problem. We have to give Ponyo a double portion to distract her long enough so her sister can eat in peace.

    Granted, she'll still bolt anytime I sneeze and rarely comes out when people come over, but she has exponentially improved since we first got her. It was a long hard road, but totally worth it.
     
  11. Puffman

    Puffman
    Expand Collapse
    Emotionally Jaded

    Reputation:
    151
    Joined:
    Oct 19, 2009
    Messages:
    1,509
    Location:
    Central California
    GTE, you have some catching up to do, but that is normal. I had a 2 year old male cat spend his first two weeks under a chest. We were all wondering how he even fit under it. They will figure it out and then the real fun starts when you are trying to watch a game with popcorn and a kitty is trying for your attention.
     
  12. Nettdata

    Nettdata
    Expand Collapse
    Mr. Toast

    Reputation:
    2,984
    Joined:
    Feb 14, 2006
    Messages:
    26,469
    My only real piece of advice is to totally ignore them. Don't make eye contact, don't try to call them over... just ignore them and let them come to you on their own.

    If you've ever had a room full of people, with one of them not liking cats, and then the cat seems to magically go to that person when it enters the room? Well, it's because all the other people are probably looking at and trying to interact with the cat.

    Play hard to get, and it will probably go faster for you.
     
  13. GTE

    GTE
    Expand Collapse
    Emotionally Jaded

    Reputation:
    609
    Joined:
    Oct 20, 2009
    Messages:
    3,097
    Over the course of the first 2-3 days, one cat has slowly come out from under the bed, would let us pet her a little and head back. Starting to get a little more confident, rolls around in the living room, plays with toys etc. Still a pet only cat and not a lap cat. The other one just moved from hiding spot to hiding spot. Until last night that is. It's like she thought "Fuck this. They're not hurting my sister and I'd really like some friends" and within an hour of venturing out from under the bed in front of us, she became a total lap cat.
     
  14. Nettdata

    Nettdata
    Expand Collapse
    Mr. Toast

    Reputation:
    2,984
    Joined:
    Feb 14, 2006
    Messages:
    26,469
    I'm going on 4(?) years with my cat that showed up under my Jeep one winter, and he's STILL not a lap cat. So yeah... that may never happen, and you're lucky it did. Sounds like the adjustment is going well. Congrats!
     
  15. wexton

    wexton
    Expand Collapse
    Emotionally Jaded

    Reputation:
    363
    Joined:
    Oct 21, 2009
    Messages:
    3,306
    Location:
    North Coast BC
    We adopted 2 brothers at 8 weeks old. They were brought to the shelter as new borns I think. We have had them for over a year now. One is such a lap cat, the other is still skiddish as all hell. Any loud noise or sudden movement he runs, most the time we don't even know where he is. I have just gotten to the point that he doesn't mind being picked up for a minute once and a while and the other night he actually jumped up on the couch beside me for a couple of minutes.
     
  16. effinshenanigans

    effinshenanigans
    Expand Collapse
    Emotionally Jaded

    Reputation:
    145
    Joined:
    Oct 19, 2009
    Messages:
    1,950
    Location:
    CT
    Apparently we needed another female in this house. Meet Paisley. She's super chill and is getting along great with my four year old daughter.
     

    Attached Files:

  17. Nettdata

    Nettdata
    Expand Collapse
    Mr. Toast

    Reputation:
    2,984
    Joined:
    Feb 14, 2006
    Messages:
    26,469
    Just put up the Xmas tree. One if the cats is enjoying it.

    4A5948DE-728E-4F62-92D5-78DF8095B74F.jpeg
     
  18. GTE

    GTE
    Expand Collapse
    Emotionally Jaded

    Reputation:
    609
    Joined:
    Oct 20, 2009
    Messages:
    3,097
    The cats enjoying the new cat tower. They are still very slightly skittish with any quick moves but other than that, they've really come around
     

    Attached Files:

  19. Nettdata

    Nettdata
    Expand Collapse
    Mr. Toast

    Reputation:
    2,984
    Joined:
    Feb 14, 2006
    Messages:
    26,469
    It's been a rough and traumatic day for one of the cats.

    We got about a foot of snow overnight:

    l1.jpeg


    She didn't take it well:

    lilly.jpeg
     
  20. Aetius

    Aetius
    Expand Collapse
    Emotionally Jaded

    Reputation:
    832
    Joined:
    Oct 19, 2009
    Messages:
    9,023
    That is a serious chonker.