The TIB guide to Men and Women

I have this irrational fear of motorcycles, so that's out and personally a nice natural A is preferable to a fake anything else. So take the money, by a ridiculous bikini, and go to Aruba or something without the kids.

 

Honestly, real boobs win. Every time. There's nothing wrong with natural A's. They're perky and happy looking, as if to say when they're revealed, "Hello! Play with me."

 

Personally, it wouldn't dissuade me in the least, unless the sex is bad. As dubya tee eff said, any guy who rules out relationship possibilities for this time strikes me as mind-blowingly old fashioned and silly. Sex is good, people.


And shimmered...how do you feel about the tits? Because...there's nothing wrong with A's. If you want them, cool, but it's very likely that they're unnecessary.

 

This decision is impossible to make without a picture of your current tits. And a picture of the motorcycle you'd get.

 

If the sex is bad, it's unlikely to move past a couple of dates before I get bored.

Sex is a crucial part of a relationship for me, if it's not fulfilling, then it'll hurt our relationship in the long run - I'm not going to think badly about you if you do sleep with me the first night. If you don't, then that's fine as well; so far, I have yet to find any correlation between good relationship and bad if you have sex on the first date.

If you blow my mind the first time, you're already one step closer to a keeper.

Focus for all: What are peoples thoughts on knowing each others sexual past? The lady and I have an idea of each others past. We both know the other has been rather prolific in their lives in regards to sexual partners and neither of us has any issue with that. We tell each other funny stories and laugh about past experiences; we also tell each other horror stories and things that we liked and not. I don't care how many partners she's had in the past, in fact, I would rather a lady with more than less, as long as she comes out clean (that way, I'm not having to teach anyone anything, which is not my bag of tea).

 

She has posted her photo on here before. She's attractive enough that she doesn't need them.

Real always wins. Implants are only necessary in emergency situations, like being in the same bar as David Lee Roth and you don't want him to ignore you.

 

This means nothing to me either way, and I have never made any judgement based on Time to First Fuck (TTFF). My TTFFs have been all over the map, from the first date to waiting a couple of weeks, and the resulting relationships show no correlation to TTFF.

A friend of mine feels very differently - he wouldn't even consider a serious relationship with a woman who gave it up on the first date. Then again, this guy, according to him, only fucks with the lights off, on pre-scheduled days of the week.

 

Alright, I want to do a little language lesson here for a sec that some may find enlightening. When most people hear the word slut, they think the judgment inherent in it is someone who has (a lot of) sex. In reality the primary judgment is "weak," as it pertains to sex. It is for this reason that the word is still in heavy use despite a widespread abandonment of the strict sexual mores that prohibited things like premarital sex, casual sex, etc. Whether they know it or not, when someone calls you a slut, or thinks that a girl is a slut, the real judgment they're making is that you lack the strength to be in control of your own sexuality and sexual experiences.

To this end, whether first date sex will affect how a guy thinks about you depends entirely on you and how you feel about it. If you do it because you're insecure or desperate and think "if I fuck him he'll love me!" guys will read this as weakness and consider it a flaw in your character. If you do it because you had a good time, you like the guy and you want to fuck, then guys will read this as confidence and it'll be a point in your favor.

Admittedly there are some guys, of the "men are hunter and women are prey" mindset that see any early sex as a "win" for the man and a "loss" for the woman, and will thus dismiss you if you "lose" too quickly, but those guys are douchebags that you should be avoiding like the plague anyway.

 

shimmered, I vote for motorcycle. Fake boobies are out, not to mention all the pain and suffering that comes with them.

You are gorgeous the way you are.

edited to add: Big boobs are a pin in the ass, they get in the way, it's hard to find clothes that fit comfortably and they definitely interefere with working out. I have to wear two damn sports bras to run or lift. Lame.

 

Okay, a couple of things:
lame ass pic.
Other lame ass pic we took for an ad for the gym.

I'm not fat. I'm very very very densely muscled (penicillin injections are a bitch). I deadlift and heavy squat and heavy jerk. I hate cardio passionately. So I'm not a fatty, I'm just...strong.

I'm not super self-conscious about being an A. I like the idea of getting a pair of full Bs. Nothing stupidly ostentatious. Just something that made it so my broad shoulders were a bit more balanced. And my ass. Jesus. My ass needs balance...it's fucking huge.


But I also like the idea of not riding bitch. And having a motorcycle. Either pink and white and silver or solid black. But that's putting the cart before the horse.

edited to add: I do NOT want huge boobs. I do NOT want a huge pair of cantaloupes stuck on my chest wall. Ick.

 

As much as I hate myself for saying this, go with the motorcycle based on what you're saying here. If you want something bigger for your man to motorboat or to strut around in a bikini, it might be different. If you need a balanced look, you could just wear a padded bra. Your new leather jacket will hide your boobs while you're riding anyway.

Now I'm conflicted - you better post in the boobie thread for us to be sure.

 

I'd hit it...um, what was the question?


Okay, a pair of B's would be better than going all D-style.

If you want them and feel that they are worth the risk of surgery, then you should do what you want.

I'd pick the motorcycle, though.

edit: My boobs are not fake, just naturally large.

 

There's a certain amount of motorboating that will definitely happen.
But now y'all see why this is an ongoing debate between the two of us. Some days boobies win. Others, the bike.

 

I'd go for a motorcycle too. Unless it's a an emotional deal for you, you're going to be attractive either way, so your breast size won't really matter that much.

 

I'd say motorcycle too. You can always sell the bike and get some money back if it turns out you don't like it. Whereas if you get sick of the boobs you'd have to pay again to get them removed.

Although, I'm far more of a butt guy than a boob guy so,

the bolded section tells me the most important part.

So, before I start rambling on and on about butt fantasizing.......................Motorcycle!

 

Not to seem creepy or anything, but t-shirts tend to hide cleavage, and in the rockwall picture your arms hide them. We need a better picture.

I'm in favor of boobs. Maybe that is because I want a boob job. I want D's.

 

D's?? I have D's girls, I am beginning to want a reduction. I fall out of low shirts and bikini tops, have to hold the latter up while in the water. Devil's Advocate- you want to race your horse? Yeah, those D's will HURT and then your pec muscles will be sore for a week. I seriously have to wear TWO GOOD sports bras at once to do anything athletic.

They look good in lingerie and bare, the rest is just tedious.

 

I have C's right now. I want D's. I have no issues with racing my horses now, why would one cup size impact them? My sister has D's and she has 2 horses.