El husband performed a stealth operation where he had my best friend take me shopping, where among other things, we looked at accessories. She then noted what sized ring fit when I tried on different rings.
You'd also be wise to ask if she is allergic to any metals (or phrase it by general allergies) - I know of a few people (including my mother) who are mildly allergic to copper. Nickel can also cause an allergic reaction for some people - these metals are added during manufacturing to give strength, particularly copper in the case of gold, while silver is more likely to have nickel somewhere in manufacturing. Jewellery that causes a rash and itching is no bueno.
Well, just an update, but his craziness finally pushed me over the edge, and the dude is no longer in my life. The funniest part was him texting me saying he heard I was at the bar trash talking him... between work & a class I'm taking, I haven't been to a bar in two weeks. Told him as much, and that "even if I was at a bar, I wouldn't be talking about him, I don't publicize my mistakes." *shrug* Got most of my stuff back last night (including a $600 computer I lent him) by taking a mutual friend with me to get it so he couldn't accuse me of taking things not mine. The rest (all little stuff) I'm just going to write off as a loss. Found out from some friends some very interesting things he had to say about me (none of which were remotely true, and they know it) and now he's come off looking like the asshole.
It happened because you wanted it to happen. The question now is what do you truly want to happen going forward. I'm not old but old enough to look back on certain moments of my life and know for certain that they were crossroads of character. This is one such moment for you. Without passing any judgment* on you as it is neither my place nor my desire you have to ask yourself what type of person you want to be. If that person realizes that they are going down a path that is directly opposite to the person you see yourself as, correct course or live with huge regrets**. If it isn't? Party on and let Karma be your judge. *I lied. You're goddamned fool if you think any good can come of this shit. This chick is going to be your bottom bitch and always be faithful to you if this is the way you start this relationship? And for real, you're going to trust her if any doubt creeps in to your appraisal of her actions? I fucking doubt it. **And in other Crixus-isms, if I were this chick's man I'd tell you 'Return cock to tunic or see brains on ground.'
That would be my general answer. If he isn't on to you, he will be if it keeps up and if I were him and found out I would probably try to gouge your eyes out. I would check yourself YESTERDAY because you cannot predict, control or stop the outcome of a crime of passion.
I think there has been some confusion here. I in no way want a relationship with this woman and until Sunday never even considered her anything other than a dude with tits. Dude is obviously not on to anything unless he's got fucking super powers. This all happened in the span of maybe 5 minutes. They live several states away and I left roughly 18 hours after. Really messing with me more from a where the fuck did that come from standpoint.
I'm not confused, you're moving on a woman who has a man. You KNOWING he's with her is what angers people. And all she has to do is feel guilty and give it away or even confess then you have a serious problem. Has he been with her long? Does he care about/love her? You have to remember there's three people involved here.
I'm not moving on her. People should be mad, I feel terrible about the whole thing. I just want to know why something like this happened after being friends for so many years.
I gave GC red for the related post. When I logged back on later he had PM'ed me. We had quite the exchange (I won't post the exchange unless he agrees to my doing so) but the long and short of it was me calling him out and going so far as to draw his attention to the escort post, where he cites that morals should have a place somewhere in society. Ah the irony. She's a whore and you're a whore-enabler that will, according to your post, reap some kind of benefit since what she said in that alley was so very hot. Makes perfect sense. If you go through with this I hope that one day, when you find someone you genuinely care about, the same thing happens to you. I will give him this, he in no way got all butthurt with me over the red or exchange.
Wait, I thought he fucked her. He didn't. People are freaking out because she jumped at him, said some freaky shit and he considered it? Come on now, I think some of you have forgotten what its like to be in your early 20s.
He wants to plan banging a buddies GF. He already broke the code. How would you feel if the shoe were on the other foot Mr. Big Dick Talker? It's wrong, period. And the fact that he knows that yet is still scheming almost makes it worse.
Re: Re: The TiBette Thread This. None of fucked around or had someone do it to you in college/early 20's? Also she jumped him, and again they didn't actually fuck so I fail to see the problem.
Re: Re: The TiBette Thread So because he's a 20 something it's ok? And because she jumped him, even though he did nothing to stop her that's ok too? And when the dude that (from what I can gather) was the DD went to get the car leaving drunkie and drunkard alone as they slipped into the alley and rubbed up against each other that's ok? And because they want to (and will) fuck eventually but haven't yet that's ok as well? Makes me so proud and gives me such big hopes for the youth of America, I think I just shed a tear. Justify it all you want, they will fuck and it will still be wrong. Why will they fuck? Because he is still thinking about it and trying to say how confused he is about it when he knows good and well, he wants to fuck her.