Please. Feet are disgusting. Please do not mix up shoe fetish with foot fetish. The fact that shoes cover feet is a huge bonus.
Choosing between a dirty wifebeater and a polo or other non-ratty shirt is not even a comparison of comfort.
YUP. It's probably no coincidence that my back is also fucked up. I promise, I don't have a lot of problems, they are just all coming up right now.
Not a foot fetish. I have no desire to suck on a girls feet, but I will definitely notice if a girl is wearing a nice set of shoes. It doesn't have to be some 6" stiletto. Just personally I don't like the way flats look. And I don't "expect" or "tell" my GF to wear sexy shoes, but I appreciate when she does and if at the end of the night, her feet hurt, I have no problem giving them a rub. And when I said an appropriate place, I obviously didn't mean the grocery store or getting an ice cream etc.
Nobody said anything about dirty. Pretend it's clean and non-offensive. And I am not saying what anybody should wear or not wear. That is your choice. Just like I have my own choices. But don't pretend you base your daily appearance on what is the most comfortable or convenient.
Yup, I sure do. Right now I am wearing sneakers, jeans, and a tshirt from Hudson's Dirt Cheap that says "The best things in life are Dirt Cheap." There are of course occasions that require nicer clothing, like business atmospheres, weddings, etc. But you know what? If the clothing is not comfortable, it isn't in my closet. And that includes most heels. It's okay if we're different. We don't have to have the same philosophy on clothing. It's okay if you wouldn't be attracted to me if we met in person. I'm not trying to impress you.
Here's the thing though: there's a huge difference between , "neat and attractive clothing" and "physically destructive footwear." No, we don't always wear the most comfortable things, but no guy is really entitled to having his gf fuck up her health for him. If she enjoys doing so, and chooses to do so, that's one thing (and it's more than awesome to appreciate it), but to act like she's some sort of lump for not doing it is kind of fucked up. Even if you don't actually have a problem with flats, the idea that women can't be sexy unless they're being self-destructive is not a good one.
If you torture your feet in heels for a little while, eventually you can rock them all the time with no pain. It's kinda like running. Tell yourself it's more mental than physical, endure for a little while, and eventually you catch a second wind.
I never thought she was a lesbian. Just because you know more about ladies' shoes than she does doesn't make her a lesbian. It may say something about you though....
I know, right? All this started with poor Rachel McAdams' ass talk. Look at what those heels did to her spine in that photo Black Jesus posted!
You suckholes chased away the only female gun toting hunting fanatic we had on this Board. Where the hell are we going to find another one of those?
This is, I think, fair. I mean, day to day, rocking heels? Nah. that shit gets old. I used to do it and yeah. Fuck that. And yeah, my clothes are pretty much based on comfort. I work in a gym, so I wear gym clothes. When I am wrangling my boys, I wear boots and jeans. When I dress up though...it's all about the heels. And only when I wear cheap heels (Dollhouse or something like that) do my feet hurt.
One of the problems with being 6 feet tall (OK, 5'11.5) and having a woman who is also 6 feet tall is that 3 inch heels make her 3 inches taller than me. Want to know how weird it is for a guy to have to kiss up?
Not to beat a dead horse, but are you actually comparing the addition of sleeves to a shirt (the difference between a tee and a wifebeater) to the addition of a metal spike to the bottom of the heel of a shoe (the difference between a heel and a flat)? I'm willing to give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you have some fucked up armpit issues that make sleeves acutely uncomfortable. But if not...bad comparison, bro. Disclaimer: I almost exclusively wear flats of some sort. I'll wear heels for 15 minutes at a time if the situation requires it, but I'd better be sitting most of the night if I'm socially required to feel like I'm drilling into my heels every time I'm upright.
I'm actually shocked that guys care that much about shoes, I guess I just missed that boat. I'm impressed if the girl has two feet. But that's negotiable.
They might be dressier, but they sure as hell are uglier. Am I the only guy who's a sucker for girls in running shoes? Maybe it's some Pavlovian connection between the shoes and girls who work out. I dunno.