I've never had a strict type, especially physically, but there are some features that I tend to gravitate towards. For one, I like dark, preferably longer, curly hair. I also prefer girls to be short enough that when they are wearing heels they are still shorter than me. Also, curves. I'm a little more picky when it comes to the non-physical traits. I tend to look for girls that are laid back and fun rather than vain and full of themselves, and confidence and a good sense of humor is huge. I like the kind of girl that can either sit around in comfy pants and watch movies or go sit at a restaurant bar/patio and drink margaritas on any given night. Of course the one thing I've definitely noticed about myself, which is probably different from a lot of guys, is that I always notice and put a lot of stock into how a girl dresses. I definitely like the girly, feminine type that dresses very fashionable/trendy. Also, heels. I have an extreme attraction to a girl in heels, even more so than the normal guy. I've even bought my girlfriend a couple pairs of heels just to get her to wear them more often. Or, you know...
Every girl I have dated has been blonde/northern European. I dated one girl who was dark haired, but it turns out it was dyed, and she was naturally blonde. I have hooked up with a couple of dark haired girls, but there were pretty damn white. One was Finnish, and the other Belgian. Sieg Heil I guess...
Physically speaking, I'm attracted to most girls. Even girls who most guys (my friends, specifically) would consider "average at best", I can usually find something about them that turns me on (bums, usually). My ex-girlfriends and girls I casually date or sleep with vary a fair bit, although I've only ever been with white girls (not out of choice, I assure you). Some commonalities among most of them: -Shorter than me, and of small-petite build. I'm 6"2 and thin -- seems to make for good physical chemistry. -Though small-petite, I've only been with one full-out skinny girl. Very few have been particularly curvy, but they all have hips you can notice, regardless of the type/style of clothing. -Light brown-blonde hair, which is kind of strange, because my top 5 celebs are all brunette-black haired. -Fair skin, even pale-ish, which again is weird because my top 5 list are all tanned. -Cute button nose My ideal girl, which would only apply to maybe 1/4 of the girls I've been with, would be: -Button nose/small build/tanned skin/dark hair -Back dimples, which I'm inclined to say drive me crazier than a great rack, due to the scarcity of them with girls I've been with (still haven't come across a set that compares to my high school girlfriend's.) -No more than a handful-sized boobs. I've thoroughly enjoyed the times I've spent with D's and bigger, but I prefer smaller-ish ones, and find fakes to be no more than a novelty, bordering on funny. -A "cute" look, versus what I would consider "hot" or "sexy" or anything else. Tough to explain, but it's mostly in the smile. Much like this girl, who I now desperately want to meet, hold and do chores for. As for personality, that's probably even tougher to describe. But I don't feel like working, so here goes: -Humour. She doesn't have to be particularly funny herself, but she has to have no limits in terms of what she'll laugh at (especially herself -- actually, now that I think of it, that's a huge turn on). I wanna say "must have a great laugh", but I don't think I've ever heard a girl laugh that I didn't like. -Intelligence. Pretty broad, I know, but I'd want her to be interested in and read about many things, and be willing and able to discuss them intelligently. An appreciation for logic would be a definite must. -Creativity. This could be anything really, but if I had to pick, I'd want her to be good at drawing/painting, probably because I'm beyond terrible at both. -Must think I'm awesome. You know, just in general. -Oh, and since sex would be a crucial component to any long term relationship, I'd prefer a mix of mostly submissiveness, with the occasional bout of "I'm so hot that you can't even think straight when looking at me naked, now let me sit on your face before you go do chores for me". I really like that girl in the picture.
I prefer them to be attractive, or failing that, at least living. I've found I have a massive weakness (ha!) for brunettes, especially athletic ones. Preferably intelligent and gifted/cursed with a very twisted/dark/sarcastic sense of humor. If she can throw a joking insult back at me harder than most guys I know, I'm damn near in love. Honesty and directness are always appreciated too. Of course, I'd have better luck finding and fucking a unicorn (and less resulting trouble as well).
As I repped you...Bah. They are out there you just have to look and keep your eyes open. Chances are she's the one that's under the radar and does not get noticed...perhaps on purpose. Food for thought. Focus: Looks are important but not what I value most, not even close. I'd take a guy that's got some appearance flaws, yet a heart of gold and treats me like I deserve to be treated over a perfectly groomed douchebag any day. I've had the perfectly groomed douchebag all that got me was several years of my being too young and stupid to get out, bruises, isolation and in the end less my dog that he stole. Never again.
I'm seriously shocked at how specific most of you have narrowed your 'type' down to. Me? Ideally, the physical specs go like this. Short, perky tits, discernible ass, and definitely in shape. If I'm going to work out 6 days a week to look good she should to. If i had to pick one, I'd probably go with brunette. Actually, the short thing doesn't even really matter, I'm 5'7 and as long as she's not towering over me I'm just as comfortable as I would be with a short girl. The most common trait among all the girls I've dated or go for are that they are really nice, sweet girls. All a girl needs to do to get my attention is be nice, smile a lot, and have a good sense of humor. Fortunately for me, I go to a school where you can't throw a stick without hitting a hot girl so I've got a wide variety of personalities and looks to decide what I like best. And one more thing. She better fucking like Detroit Red Wings hockey.
A snip here and there, and Mr. Cool Dog is just like how I am. Add in the voice of Alexis Bledel (seen below) or Joey Lauren Adams, and I'll roll over like a dog who wants a belly (read: cock) rub. As for personality traits: once again, I prefer girly-girls. They're my #1 weakness when it comes to the prettier half of the population. As long as the girl isn't dumb, shallow, or reserved, I'm sold.
I used to have a "type". I am 6'3", and all arms and legs. I used to date girls only over 5'8", not really as a "standard", but just because I'm tall. Plus, they all looked like volleyball players: Straight hair, either blonde or brown. Basically, it was all Amazon women. I've dated girls as tall as 6'3". Most of them had big boobs, too. My wife took that mold and kicked the shit out of it. She's 5'3", and other than her bubble butt, she's wicked petite. She has curly red hair, and small boobs. I couldn't be happier (although we both agree she could have a bit of a boob job). Yeah, sex in the shower is difficult with the height difference, but honestly, sex in the shower isn't that great anyway, unless it's porn. One of the things I love best about my wife (other than the whole "nymphomaniac" thing) is that she is an absolute sweetheart. She loves all animals. She is just a genuinely nice person. If she is your friend she has your back, no matter what. 100% sweet, 100% loyal. Smart, well read, very classy, but she'll also go outside and dig up rocks, pick up snakes by the tail to show the kids, tackle Tonka if he is being fresh, and hike in the woods. She's a lady through and through, but she'll come outside and wire wheel the chassis on the car so we can paint it, she'll hang drywall, get out a chainsaw and cut trees down. ETA: When I was fixing up an RX7 I had, she even custom made door panels for it. She's just bad ass.
I thought this was going to be more about personality type when it was first posted. HA! Guess again. Ill start off with personality. At this point Im actually pretty shocked Ive never dated a black chick. A majority of the black girls Ive met are all loud, vulgar, and endlessly outgoing, which pretty much describes me to a T (aside from some serious "outgoing" hangups Ive yet to overcome completely). I instantly click with 99% of them, much much higher than with all other types of girls combined. Since Ive never dated a girl with this personality type I couldn't even tell you if it'd work out in the long term. As for physical beauty, having lost my virginity to a tall amazon type I really pursued them for a while with varying but largely negative results (Im 5'5, tall girls a lot of the time have trouble with that). Of the girls Ive been with I think Ive most enjoyed the petite ones. One girl I dated was probably 5'3 110lbs. Not waif thin but had a nice cherry ass. My ideal girls can be seen in the Insanity workout videos Ive been doing. Athletic and nice toned curves. It's not really fair since I get a rock hard thumping boner for girls in athletic shorts and those bright colored athletic trainer shoes. Somehow, like pumps, those cross trainers makes women's legs just look like perfect little juicy fuck jewels*. *Im not even sure what that even means.
My avatar sums up my tastes in women pretty well. My type is definitely girl-next-door cute. The following two women epitomize my ideal face: Spoiler Christine Taylor, aka Ben Stiller's wife: Spoiler Rashida Jones, or Karen from The Office Most of my buddies are all about the Meghan Fox look but the DSL's just never did it for me. In terms of body type I like a girl thats 5'2 to 5'4, with a nice tight waist, big butt, and large B/small C boobies. I used to be all about the skinny girls but I've now seen enough girls naked to know that curves look a lot sexier than bones when the clothes come off. My girlfriend also has this body type so maybe I've just grown to like it.
Durbanite wins. Flawless victory. My type? I don't know if I have a 'type' per se, but.. The guy earlier who mentioned redheads was spot on. Hell yes.
Physically, I'm attracted to two types of women: Short w/ curves or medium height, low bodyfat & fit. My preference is for the latter. I've often explained clumsily that I prefer brunettes because a hot brunette is really hot whereas there are a lot of attractive blondes who are just average girls w/ dyed hair (makes total sense in my mind but hard to explain eloquently)? As far as personality, I want someone w/ a warped sense of humor, quick-witted and not at all subservient. I really need someone who's fairly well-read and hopefully well-traveled, as I am the former but could use a good push with the latter. I recently discovered just about the perfect girl for me physically, Rachel Fazzalaro (spoilered for size):
Those are my two types as well I will elaborate just a bit on that though: type one- Usually has my humor of dry sarcasm. And usually don't just let me have them. I have to fight a bit and usually there is a power struggle of who is in control. But it gets annoying and frustrating if the guy fights on EVERYTHING. Never get bored, though. type two- Tends to be quiet and have to kind of bring them out of their shell. Have to be able to have an intellectual conversation; must be able to see him as an equal. Minimum jealousy or none.