Exactly. That's why I said, in the official rape thread, that no matter how much non-rapists make rape jokes, they don't deserve ANY blame for when the ACTUAL RAPISTS RAPE PEOPLE. Words are just words (though it's stupid to make the jokes in un-familiar company), leering is incredibly rude, but both are night-and-day-different from physically forcing someone against their will.
Yeah can we go ahead and call for a ban on the words "Official Rape Thread" from here on out, just seems pretty damn unsavory, try saying it out loud and you'll see what I mean.
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